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hamster_head said:It's actually a huge turn on to me to know a girl hasn't been kissed. There is a lot of emotional stress you have to go through hearing about someone's "Ex", so it's great whenever you can skip that.
That is awsome...Grommit said:There is no need to be ashamed. I think that's totally cool!
I perfer to marry a virgin but I also knew in this day and age that would be hard to come by and I thought my wife would be partly soiled, but, wow. As a guy, I must admit, I think it's awesome to know there are still pure girls around.
Go ahead and keep your standards high but keep them realistic. There is no perfect guy so don't waste your time looking for him. there are only real people with real problems. Just make sure the guy is walking with the lord. It will help in many ways.
As for loosening up around guys, well... kissing them might help! (heh, Kidding!) Just be yourself. I like girls who are themselves. What more can I say? (really, what more can I say? I just dont know. Sorry. heh)
Oh btw, I'm 25 and never been kissed either. I've never dated anyone as well let alone held a girls hand on a romantic level. maybe I am the freak?
Just be sure you can cook well and you will be ok.
>I can say the same thing. I've never been kissed, dated, or anything. And that is perfectly normal. And it's great to know that there are guys out there who are the same way. I wondered if any of all were left... which leads to the question....... Where are ya'll at???? I can't seem to find a Christian man.........totally tired of be alone....
And before anybody says it, I know that it is all God's timing but I am soooooooo tired of being by my self.... after almost 25 years of single, I'm ready to move on with life and have that somone special in my life
And also for those that are waiting.... good for you, it is soooo worth the wait......I know it will be beyond words when we finally meet that one that God has for us
Hey I just want to remind you that you have not been waiting for almost 25 years. (I am saying this with a smile and not in a rude manner, smile, smile, smile) But you know that for the first 2 years of your life you had your dippers changed, then the next 4 or so years you were not potty trained. The next four years you most likely wanted to play tag and duck, duck, goose. This brings us till your about 10 which has you waiting about 15 years. Unless you wanted to get married at 10 then you have no more than 15 years waiting. [/size][/color][/font]
I don't know are you one of the girls who have been planning their weeding since they were 10? I don't know if you are, but I do know a handful who have.
But from the age of 10 till maybe let say 18 you were still finding yourself.
And I quote "If you dont know who you are then you cant really find that perfect person for yourself."
Well from 18 till now (25 you say) you have 7 years of waiting.
So you have probably been waiting for 7 years.
That is all for now.
God Cares.
Hector
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You'll pardon me for not joining in the back-slapping but I think that refering to any woman as 'partly soiled' to be highly derogatory. I also find it startling that the women on this thread think that this is in some way endearing.Grommit said:I perfer to marry a virgin but I also knew in this day and age that would be hard to come by and I thought my wife would be partly soiled, but, wow. As a guy, I must admit, I think it's awesome to know there are still pure girls around.
peteey,peteey said:Okay I am kind of ashamed to come out and say this, especially in a society that is so based on this kind of thing, but I am 23 almost 24, and never have been really offically kissed! i've dated a couple of times, but it never got to far....is that a total turn off to guys?
Is there something wrong with me? Do i have my standards set to high? I get really self conscious around guys that I like, so a lot of guys probably think I am snotty. But I am totally normal around guys that I know are "taken" and can be the total goof that I am....how do i loosen up around guys?
YOU WIN.mrstace said:peteey,
Your a pup, barely out of diapers!! I don't think you have anything to worry about. Here I'll make you feel better about yourself. I'm 30 never been kissed. However, I have been threatened that I was going to get shot. Told not to call.. I think twice. Um,, well you get the idea.
Gee, I finally win a contest. What is the prize? Perhaps, I do not want to know.hex98co99 said:
It's a real easy process. I sit in my front yard in a lawn chair, and wait for God to them send floating down with an umbrella like Mary Poppins.hex98co99 said:
*thinks he should do the same.... looks for a lawn chair and the popcornmrstace said:It's a real easy process. I sit in my front yard in a lawn chair, and wait for God to them send floating down with an umbrella like Mary Poppins.
Pardon me, but almost 24 isn't "barely out of diapers". Being in your mid-30's isn't too far away from where you're at in life. I found that statement (as playful as it may have been) kind of offensive.
