Needs help and prayers

[Wifeneedsanswers]

I am not sure, or maybe I don't want to know but I believe my husband has been tyrning to porn. I am to blame he tells I don't give him enough loving but this has broken me into peices I have never felt such pain. I have messed up my marriage and have no idea how to address the issue because I know that he will blame me. Please help me understand how the bible would lead me.

 

[Seadish]

Stay in you word let Him change you and the way you love your husband then Believe

 

[Tolworth John]

I am to blame he tells I don't give him enough loving but this has broken me into peices I have never felt such pain.

Being told you don't love your husband causes unimaginable pain?
Why?
You both need to talk and to listen to the other.

What does he mean by saying 'you don't give him enough loving?'
I as a man assume that he wants sex, but isn't getting any.
You need to talk about this.

Hs say 'you are to blame?'
Does he often accuse you of being at fault?
If he does this is abusive behaviour that he has to stop doing.

Please remind him of the biblical standard of how he is to love you. To love you because you are his wife without any conditions.

If talking with him does not clear matters up please seek professional help from a marriage councelor.

 

[Tigger45]

Weather there are legitimate marital issues or not is not justification for porn or other magnifications of sin. It takes both partners being responsible and authentic to correct problems within the relationship.