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Seadish

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i have grieved more times than most would I know how it goes but almost 6 months into my brothers pancreatic cancer diagnosis I still can’t grab hold of it still can’t talk about without falling apart I do not know I’m gonna make it through this one suggestions. Sorry haven’t been on here at all lately just buying a house what a trip
 

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i have grieved more times than most would I know how it goes but almost 6 months into my brothers pancreatic cancer diagnosis I still can’t grab hold of it still can’t talk about without falling apart I do not know I’m gonna make it through this one suggestions. Sorry haven’t been on here at all lately just buying a house what a trip

My Nephew drowned in my Fathers pool and I had to give him CPR. He was 3 yrs old. He died later on life support. It was a terrible experience.

Therefore I would suggest spending time with your brother if you can, be there for him and get a lot of time in. That's what I did with my aunt and grandma before they past away and it was a better experience. Makes it easier? Maybe and maybe not, but you'll have less regrets.
 
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My Nephew drowned in my Fathers pool and I had to give him CPR. He was 3 yrs old. He died later on life support. It was a terrible experience.

Therefore I would suggest spending time with your brother if you can, be there for him and get a lot of time in. That's what I did with my aunt and grandma before they past away and it was a better experience. Makes it easier? Maybe and maybe not, but you'll have less regrets.
Ya I know and I’m sorry for you loss and ty not really easier but helpful nonetheless because I know
 
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