I appreciate your honest approach here, it is refreshing. Put yourself in my position for a second. I believe in God for both personal reasons and intellectual reasons and its always my intention to be as objective as possible when I'm engaging those who don't believe in God. This means I'm asking them questions about many different things including existence, origins, meanings behind everything, but there comes a point when I'm questioning, that they introduce the particular God I believe in, in an attempt to redirect the conversation to how they think this God can't possibly be perfect or whatever the reason is that they don't believe in "my God". This is frustrating to me because I'm just trying to understand their point of view, you know be objective, but there often comes a point where they just don't have a reason or they just can't answer the tough questions which then puts them on the defensive so they bring "my God" into the conversation, in order to divert the attention from their own inability to answer the tough questions. I had never mentioned God's perfection or anything about God, so why bring Him into the conversation except to divert the conversation away from themselves? I'm not saying all atheists do this, but a lot of them do, without realizing it. I'm just trying to get to the bottom of why they do this in order to help me understand them or help them understand themselves, we all have to be capable of asking ourselves and others the really really tough questions and if we never find an answer on the other end, then whats the point of even asking?
Well, you didn´t ask for any of that.
Plus, there have been plenty of replies so that - if this really were about those questions - there would be not much point in focussing on the "first post that mentioned 'God'".
E.g. I have at least twice responded to your question (which I think isn´t tough at all), I didn´t mention "God", I don´t think the answer has anything to do with "God" or "no God", and you didn´t respond to my posts. (Presumably exactly because they didn´t help you with "demonstrating [your] truth" about "God".
If I can't understand atheists, I'm going to continue believing they're wrong.
Who cares what you believe? It´s your prerogative to believe that.
As far as I am concerned, people are welcome to believe in tooth fairies, elfs, demons, devils, Gods and whatnot. It´s a private thing and non of my business. Whatever helps them find meaning in their lives is fine with me. But when they get big mouthed and announce themselves as the holder of "truths" (and especially when their whole approach rests on shifting the burden of evidence), I am expecting a little more than empty claims.
Believe me or not this is the true reason behind this forum, to help me understand you.
You mean "thread", not "forum", correct?
To be honest, no, I don´t believe you at this point. In the course of the discussion you have made so many different claims about the purpose of this thread (starting with "I am going to demonstrate a truth", which already is something quite different than "I want to understand you") that I have problems taking these claims seriously.
If you don't do it already, really try and understand the reasons behind why people believe in God and try to put your own biases to the side and really think objectively about all issues regarding life/existence.
First you complain that people bring "God" into the discussion (even though you hadn´t intended this to be about "God"), now you say this is about making people understand why you believe in "God". Your claims about your reasons here get ever more contradictory.
I'm not expecting atheists to explain/defend their non-belief in X.
That´s great. I was just responding to your complaint
how people defend their atheism. Now, maybe you meant to complain
that they do (without being asked to) - but that wasn´t clear from what you wrote.
Personally, I find the question "Do Gods exist" completely boring, and I never discuss them. Funnily enough, I have participated in some threads of yours about stuff that didn´t have directly to do with this question, and then you were the one turning it into apologetics. And I am not the only one.
I'm just expecting them to have a good answer or reason for the things they do believe.
Good. So what is it that all atheists believe, and that you have tough questions about?
I'm still searching for these reasons and answers which just informs me that they don't have reasons or answers for the biggest most thought out questions about life.
Maybe you get that impression because you have a habit of loading your questions with theistic premises (e.g. "perfect existence")?
But, anyway, I have no problem admitting that there are questions I can´t answer (and on another note I also don´t think that every question is necessarily meaningful just because it is grammatically correct). However, I don´t hold any firm beliefs concerning these things I don´t know about.
This reasonably means the truth is somewhere else.
Somewhere else than where exactly? Are you, by any chance, still erroneously assuming that atheism is a worldview, and thus has answers?
If you address people explicitly as "atheists" you must be aware that they´ll understand you want to talk about something related to "God". Because that´s the only issue atheism makes a statement about.
This permanent change of your claimed purposes for this thread - from "I am going to demonstrate a truth" to "I wanted to make a point about atheists mentioning God first" to "I just wanted to understand you" - is remarkable, and not really helpful in your attempt to establish your honesty, sorry. To me it suggests that you are making that stuff up as you walk along.