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Topic: sounds silly but i am sorry.... (Read 314 times) anyo
sounds silly but i am sorry....
on: August 05, 2007, 11:49:55 PM
ok here is my prayer request...first of all i want to say sorry God please forgive me....
i am a Christian for over 10 years but for the couple of past years....i was on and off at church lately and my heart has become very dry and hard.....then i met this girl who i like so much then after some time we become close....
yeah u are right we made love ....a safe one of course....but for the couple of past days she complained that she haven't got her period and i am beginning to worry that she might be pregnant for some reason....
my prayer request is that...plz...don't make her pregnant.....we don't want an abortion and that would not be our option ever and we are so not ready to have a baby right now because we are still young....i am 22 and she's 20....
in my heart sometimes i could hear a voice that has been telling me to just have a faith in God but the reality is....she's starting to shows a pregnancy symptoms and it's making me worried so much.....her period should be around 7 -10 of august and we couldn't able to take a pregnancy test because we are living in the separate continent....but we are still loving each other.......i couldn't let her to take the test alone because i want to be beside her when she take it and be there to comfort her.....
i know some of you might laugh at me and i don't mind because i know it was my mistake......but what i am asking is just only one prayer....so that God have mercy on me.....and if it ever comes to worse let me have the strength to face all of this......thank you....
ConnieLard
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #1 on: August 06, 2007, 08:49:41 AM
Praying.
(I'm a little confused by your statement that you couldn't "let" her take the pregnancy test alone. She is, after all, a grown woman and shouldn't have to ask permission from you to take a pregnancy test and it seems wiser to find out as soon as possible, but, whatever.........)
anyo
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #2 on: August 06, 2007, 05:18:51 PM
uhmm she's not actually ask permission from me...it's just that she doesn't want to take the test alone without me.... please if you are reading this.....i beg of you to pray for me....
janine
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #3 on: August 06, 2007, 07:52:13 PM
If I laugh at you I have to laugh at me for my stupid sinful decisions as well.
And I do. I laugh at me a lot, it's either laugh or cry.
So here's my time to laugh at you
OK, now I had my laugh, welcome to my world of silly sinful stupid decisions.
Take my advice and do not stay there. Leave the place of sinful decisions, and make the not-sinful decisions.
All you have to do is make the next right decision. It's easier if you break it down into steps.
Much depends upon what you mean by "a safe one".
Much depends upon the girl's health and other reasons why she might have a pause in her normal cycle, not only pregnancy.
Much depends upon whether or not the girl has been with only you.
Trust God. Even if the occasion of a sinful situation allowed a baby to be conceived, a baby is a gift of God and nothing to be dismayed about.
If there is a baby, you make the next right steps.
If there is no baby, you make the next right steps.
All the while praying to God that His will be done, and that you might be strong enough to do His will.
And others here will pray as well.
johntwayne
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #4 on: August 07, 2007, 05:26:32 AM
praying
ConnieLard
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #5 on: August 07, 2007, 06:08:38 PM
I am still praying for you as well. Not praying that the young woman in question won't have become pregnant, because that horse is already out of the barn. She either did become pregnant or she didn't. If you had "safe" sex, as you say, then the possibility that the baby is yours is much reduced (if there IS a baby). She could have become pregnant by someone else and now be trying to pass it off as yours. Desperate women often use that trick on gullible men, so be warned.
I am praying that each of you will seek to put God first in your life from here on out. You can't change what's happened in the past, but you can give the present and future to the care of God. I pray that you will do that.
athome
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #6 on: August 10, 2007, 01:18:48 PM
We are not prefect people and make mistakes...I will pray for you
janine
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #7 on: August 10, 2007, 01:35:48 PM
Goodness, yes.
If we could not wrestle with our actions, and ask for prayer, and wonder how in the world are we going to change things and go in a better direction, we'd all be up Lost Creek without a Savior.
anyo
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #8 on: August 16, 2007, 02:48:32 AM
Thank God....today as soon as I heard the good news from my girl that she just had her period yesterday...I rushed and wanted to tell all of you people who prayed for me to hear the good news...thank you for your prayer...... I just know that the baby would be mine because she's not that type of person who would go to another guy and she's been loyal to me and I just know it in my heart....I keep telling her to be strong that we would go through all of this together but without her knowing, I cried a lot!!! Since the day I posted this, there're none of my days has past without tears flowing down my cheek...most of the time I cried in the presence of the Lord to seek for his forgiveness.......but most of the time....I cried because of her....I just couldn't see her going through a different course of life because of me...I know and she told me many times that it's our fault together but I just couldn't bear that she would go through much suffering.....I just care for her a lot....and I want to share my story to all of you so this would bring glory into His name......
August 2. Me and her started to worry as her period haven't come yet and she told me that she started to experience early stage of first trimester pregnancy such as sore nipples ..
August 3 & 4. I started to worry and hoping that her period would come .
August 5 - 10. I couldnt sleep well because a lot of things running through my head...how to tell our parents.....and afraid of starting a family in this young age of ours.....I told her that I love her and she told me she loves me too and somehow it gives me strength to face all of these....but we just sad and afraid ..
she told me that she gained weight.....she went to the restrooms more often and she told me that her breast is getting larger....it's almost the same as the early sign of pregnancy....and I am almost positive that she would be pregnant....moreover, sometimes she told me that she experienced nausea .and she sleeps a lot .
August 12
she took a pregnancy test with her friend and come out negative.....I filled with joy that day but I researched in the internet that pregnancy kit sometimes might gives a negative sign at the early of pregnancy because of the lack of HGC hormones......moreover.. .she took it in the afternoon......I prayed that day .and I prayed hard .
August 13
she took another pregnancy test early in the morning after I told her to and come out a negative sign but when I questioned her she told me that she did not test it with her first urine in the morning thats why she got a negative sign . I told her to take a blood test which would be more accurate when she gets to LA if she keeps missing her period.
August 15
she called me that she just had her period yesterday .I wept and just praises God in my car ..^^
This is some verse that I want to share to you guys .
2 Kings 20:2-6
2 Hezekiah turned his face to the wall and prayed to the LORD, 3 "Remember, O LORD, how I have walked before you faithfully and with wholehearted devotion and have done what is good in your eyes." And Hezekiah wept bitterly.
4 Before Isaiah had left the middle court, the word of the LORD came to him: 5 "Go back and tell Hezekiah, the leader of my people, 'This is what the LORD, the God of your father David, says: I have heard your prayer and seen your tears; I will heal you. On the third day from now you will go up to the temple of the LORD. 6 I will add fifteen years to your life. And I will deliver you and this city from the hand of the king of Assyria. I will defend this city for my sake and for the sake of my servant David.' "
Thank you for your prayer ..bless you.
DCR
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #9 on: August 16, 2007, 06:26:33 AM
I'm glad everything worked out for the best.
Now, I hope you've learned from this experience that some things need to wait until you're married. My impression from Scripture is that God doesn't really approve of sex outside of marriage. If you really care for this girl and believe that she may be "the one," then you may want to think about that next step. The apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians 7 (I believe) said that it is better to marry than to burn with passion. Yet, marriage is not something you rush into either.
In any case, if you are tempted to be sexual with this girl again (or any other girl before marriage), just remember this situation you've experience and... don't do it.
Serenity432001
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #10 on: August 16, 2007, 06:42:14 AM
Thanks for the update and as dcr has suggested you have just been given an awesome lesson to learn. It's not an easy one for once you've started having sex with someone it is VERY difficult to stop the sex and continue the relationship. You and your girlfriend will continue to be in my prayers as you together look to Him for guidance.
Blessings
Lisa P
ConnieLard
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #11 on: August 16, 2007, 07:08:48 AM
anyo,Thanks for the update! Glad things have worked out this way for you. You have written with much intensity re: this experience. It is my prayer that you will use this experience as something that will help mature you into the kind of man that God intends for you to be. It's all a growing process - and we're ALL in the midst of it. Trying, making mistakes, learning, always looking to God. May God bless you with peace and joy and give you the strength and determination to carry out His will in your life.
You sis in Him,
Connie
Topic: sounds silly but i am sorry.... (Read 314 times) anyo
sounds silly but i am sorry....
on: August 05, 2007, 11:49:55 PM
ok here is my prayer request...first of all i want to say sorry God please forgive me....
i am a Christian for over 10 years but for the couple of past years....i was on and off at church lately and my heart has become very dry and hard.....then i met this girl who i like so much then after some time we become close....
yeah u are right we made love ....a safe one of course....but for the couple of past days she complained that she haven't got her period and i am beginning to worry that she might be pregnant for some reason....
my prayer request is that...plz...don't make her pregnant.....we don't want an abortion and that would not be our option ever and we are so not ready to have a baby right now because we are still young....i am 22 and she's 20....
in my heart sometimes i could hear a voice that has been telling me to just have a faith in God but the reality is....she's starting to shows a pregnancy symptoms and it's making me worried so much.....her period should be around 7 -10 of august and we couldn't able to take a pregnancy test because we are living in the separate continent....but we are still loving each other.......i couldn't let her to take the test alone because i want to be beside her when she take it and be there to comfort her.....
i know some of you might laugh at me and i don't mind because i know it was my mistake......but what i am asking is just only one prayer....so that God have mercy on me.....and if it ever comes to worse let me have the strength to face all of this......thank you....
ConnieLard
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #1 on: August 06, 2007, 08:49:41 AM
Praying.
(I'm a little confused by your statement that you couldn't "let" her take the pregnancy test alone. She is, after all, a grown woman and shouldn't have to ask permission from you to take a pregnancy test and it seems wiser to find out as soon as possible, but, whatever.........)
anyo
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #2 on: August 06, 2007, 05:18:51 PM
uhmm she's not actually ask permission from me...it's just that she doesn't want to take the test alone without me.... please if you are reading this.....i beg of you to pray for me....
janine
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #3 on: August 06, 2007, 07:52:13 PM
If I laugh at you I have to laugh at me for my stupid sinful decisions as well.
And I do. I laugh at me a lot, it's either laugh or cry.
So here's my time to laugh at you
OK, now I had my laugh, welcome to my world of silly sinful stupid decisions.
Take my advice and do not stay there. Leave the place of sinful decisions, and make the not-sinful decisions.
All you have to do is make the next right decision. It's easier if you break it down into steps.
Much depends upon what you mean by "a safe one".
Much depends upon the girl's health and other reasons why she might have a pause in her normal cycle, not only pregnancy.
Much depends upon whether or not the girl has been with only you.
Trust God. Even if the occasion of a sinful situation allowed a baby to be conceived, a baby is a gift of God and nothing to be dismayed about.
If there is a baby, you make the next right steps.
If there is no baby, you make the next right steps.
All the while praying to God that His will be done, and that you might be strong enough to do His will.
And others here will pray as well.
johntwayne
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #4 on: August 07, 2007, 05:26:32 AM
praying
ConnieLard
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #5 on: August 07, 2007, 06:08:38 PM
I am still praying for you as well. Not praying that the young woman in question won't have become pregnant, because that horse is already out of the barn. She either did become pregnant or she didn't. If you had "safe" sex, as you say, then the possibility that the baby is yours is much reduced (if there IS a baby). She could have become pregnant by someone else and now be trying to pass it off as yours. Desperate women often use that trick on gullible men, so be warned.
I am praying that each of you will seek to put God first in your life from here on out. You can't change what's happened in the past, but you can give the present and future to the care of God. I pray that you will do that.
athome
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #6 on: August 10, 2007, 01:18:48 PM
We are not prefect people and make mistakes...I will pray for you
janine
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #7 on: August 10, 2007, 01:35:48 PM
Goodness, yes.
If we could not wrestle with our actions, and ask for prayer, and wonder how in the world are we going to change things and go in a better direction, we'd all be up Lost Creek without a Savior.
anyo
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #8 on: August 16, 2007, 02:48:32 AM
Thank God....today as soon as I heard the good news from my girl that she just had her period yesterday...I rushed and wanted to tell all of you people who prayed for me to hear the good news...thank you for your prayer...... I just know that the baby would be mine because she's not that type of person who would go to another guy and she's been loyal to me and I just know it in my heart....I keep telling her to be strong that we would go through all of this together but without her knowing, I cried a lot!!! Since the day I posted this, there're none of my days has past without tears flowing down my cheek...most of the time I cried in the presence of the Lord to seek for his forgiveness.......but most of the time....I cried because of her....I just couldn't see her going through a different course of life because of me...I know and she told me many times that it's our fault together but I just couldn't bear that she would go through much suffering.....I just care for her a lot....and I want to share my story to all of you so this would bring glory into His name......
August 2. Me and her started to worry as her period haven't come yet and she told me that she started to experience early stage of first trimester pregnancy such as sore nipples ..
August 3 & 4. I started to worry and hoping that her period would come .
August 5 - 10. I couldnt sleep well because a lot of things running through my head...how to tell our parents.....and afraid of starting a family in this young age of ours.....I told her that I love her and she told me she loves me too and somehow it gives me strength to face all of these....but we just sad and afraid ..
she told me that she gained weight.....she went to the restrooms more often and she told me that her breast is getting larger....it's almost the same as the early sign of pregnancy....and I am almost positive that she would be pregnant....moreover, sometimes she told me that she experienced nausea .and she sleeps a lot .
August 12
she took a pregnancy test with her friend and come out negative.....I filled with joy that day but I researched in the internet that pregnancy kit sometimes might gives a negative sign at the early of pregnancy because of the lack of HGC hormones......moreover.. .she took it in the afternoon......I prayed that day .and I prayed hard .
August 13
she took another pregnancy test early in the morning after I told her to and come out a negative sign but when I questioned her she told me that she did not test it with her first urine in the morning thats why she got a negative sign . I told her to take a blood test which would be more accurate when she gets to LA if she keeps missing her period.
August 15
she called me that she just had her period yesterday .I wept and just praises God in my car ..^^
This is some verse that I want to share to you guys .
2 Kings 20:2-6
2 Hezekiah turned his face to the wall and prayed to the LORD, 3 "Remember, O LORD, how I have walked before you faithfully and with wholehearted devotion and have done what is good in your eyes." And Hezekiah wept bitterly.
4 Before Isaiah had left the middle court, the word of the LORD came to him: 5 "Go back and tell Hezekiah, the leader of my people, 'This is what the LORD, the God of your father David, says: I have heard your prayer and seen your tears; I will heal you. On the third day from now you will go up to the temple of the LORD. 6 I will add fifteen years to your life. And I will deliver you and this city from the hand of the king of Assyria. I will defend this city for my sake and for the sake of my servant David.' "
Thank you for your prayer ..bless you.
DCR
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #9 on: August 16, 2007, 06:26:33 AM
I'm glad everything worked out for the best.
Now, I hope you've learned from this experience that some things need to wait until you're married. My impression from Scripture is that God doesn't really approve of sex outside of marriage. If you really care for this girl and believe that she may be "the one," then you may want to think about that next step. The apostle Paul in 1 Corinthians 7 (I believe) said that it is better to marry than to burn with passion. Yet, marriage is not something you rush into either.
In any case, if you are tempted to be sexual with this girl again (or any other girl before marriage), just remember this situation you've experience and... don't do it.
Serenity432001
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #10 on: August 16, 2007, 06:42:14 AM
Thanks for the update and as dcr has suggested you have just been given an awesome lesson to learn. It's not an easy one for once you've started having sex with someone it is VERY difficult to stop the sex and continue the relationship. You and your girlfriend will continue to be in my prayers as you together look to Him for guidance.
Blessings
Lisa P
ConnieLard
Re: sounds silly but i am sorry....
Reply #11 on: August 16, 2007, 07:08:48 AM
anyo,Thanks for the update! Glad things have worked out this way for you. You have written with much intensity re: this experience. It is my prayer that you will use this experience as something that will help mature you into the kind of man that God intends for you to be. It's all a growing process - and we're ALL in the midst of it. Trying, making mistakes, learning, always looking to God. May God bless you with peace and joy and give you the strength and determination to carry out His will in your life.
You sis in Him,
Connie
