Miss Spaulding
Virtus semper viridis
- Jan 6, 2005
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- Christian
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- Private
I'm not sure I fully understand your comment. It sounds like you're saying the comments I receive are because I go places I shouldn't be in. I'm responding to that, and if that's not what you meant I apologize.
The instances in which I have been cat-called, harassed, or touched have been in crowded, densely populated areas. Examples: walking around the busy streets of New York or Key West, walking around the Mall of America, or at theme parks. I dress fashionably and modestly, but I have a more womanly figure that I cannot (and do not) go out of my way to disguise.
However....
Even if these things would have been happening to me in a bar or any other seemingly unsavory place, it does not make it my fault. We are all responsible for our own actions and harassment or unwanted touching is NEVER okay, no matter what the harasser says illicted that response. I am really disturbed when I see that kind of mentality.

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