I'm not bitter though. I know God is listening but not answering. I haven't posted in a while but I have posted before that I have an abusive father. He's unsaved, abusive, miserable and violent. I have to walk on eggshells around him and it is sucking the life out of me.
I'm sorry to hear this, I know where you're coming from...
I need to move out but can't. I have the courage I just don't have the means.
What exactly is preventing you from getting out?
Like Inkachu said you can share an apartment. If you have other family (cousins, aunts, grandparents) go live with them instead. I had a cousin who "lived" on couches in their friends houses for awhile just to get away. I've known people who have lived in their car for a time just to get out. You can even camp or rent an RV. There are options even if they aren't glamorous, but you can always make changes later.
If you don't have a car for transportation, get a bike or take public transportation. I've known a women who's car was totaled and she walked to work every day, around 7 miles. Sometimes you deal with what you have even if it's not ideal.
If you don't have a job,
apply everywhere even where you don't want to work at. Stores with a high turn-over rate will more likely hire you than others. Look at places that are non-retail; maybe at a factory, maybe as a hired hand, maybe doing yard work, telemarketing, hotel, editor, teach art or piano, house sitting, baby sitting, get hired as a companion for the elderly, etc. Maybe do every kind odd job you can find. Where there's a will, there's a way. It doesn't matter your education.
I go to church every Sunday to ask God to either change him or change me. I think God is actually changing me instead. I now have zero tolerance for his nonsense. I don't pray for him as much. My heart is hard. Maybe God wants it that way. God has gotten rid of bad influences in my life before.
I can love this enemy by promising not to punch him in the face. That is probably the kindest thing I can do for him. What would Jesus do?
I don't believe his abusive behavior should be tolerated or condoned. I believe it's right to be angered by evil and injustice. However, I know God doesn't want your heart to grow hard and cold to people. I know God doesn't want you to be filled with hate, rage, bitterness, etc. You may never be able to have a real relationship with your Father, and you may need to be aware you cannot fix him, be aware that you need to move on and get away; do not give pearls to swines -- but do not hate the man because that will take over your heart. You may not be able to help that, but I know God can heal your heart and allow you to forgive. What would Jesus do? He would leave the justice to God and forgive his sins, so anger would not give Satan a opening into his heart. Forgiving your father isn't just for him, but it's to set you free too. That is the beauty of grace.
Do what you can to stand on your own feet and get out of the house. The sooner you can get away from that environment the sooner you can start to heal.