Anyway, I have been really making some colossal efforts to lose some kgs. So far I have lost 6 1/2 - 7 kg (I am just about down to pre-preg weight with Em so that is an achievement for me)
Anyway, so far no one has really noticed the weight loss which makes it worse because I am one of those people that is really encouraged by other people and all that, so anyway, I have been at my husband for WEEKS to help me out supporting me etc. About the best I've got is him putting our son to bed most nights so I can get started on my evening walks if things have been hectic and I'm not organised he helps out a bit which is great. But I guess I am after a bit of verbal support as well (after all I am probably one of the biggest chatterboxes in the world) so I keep saying to him "do I look skinnier etc etc" and he just makes jokes about it. It's alright for him he's at his biggest he's ever been in his life now (which still is around the healthy weight range for his height and is still around 10 kg lighter than me)
So I said to him yesterday someone commented that I've lost weight today and they noticed and I was all excited about it because it's the first time someone has noticed and said something about it. I don't really go on about how much weight I've lost all the time, I do on here because I feel safe to talk about it but anyway.... I don't do it in real life that much except to one friend from play group who is losing some as well. Anyway... he says to me "It's come off your face" Now what the heck does that mean? I'm standing there looking at him wondering what he is going on about, then he says "it has - go and have a look" So I go and have a look and I don't look so chubby in the cheeks but I just thought it was really odd thing to say.
Ah well, I guess that's why we go so well together lol, we just puzzle each other and try to figure each other out. It's alright - he can't figure me out either lol. You would think after almost 6 years.....
Anyway, so far no one has really noticed the weight loss which makes it worse because I am one of those people that is really encouraged by other people and all that, so anyway, I have been at my husband for WEEKS to help me out supporting me etc. About the best I've got is him putting our son to bed most nights so I can get started on my evening walks if things have been hectic and I'm not organised he helps out a bit which is great. But I guess I am after a bit of verbal support as well (after all I am probably one of the biggest chatterboxes in the world) so I keep saying to him "do I look skinnier etc etc" and he just makes jokes about it. It's alright for him he's at his biggest he's ever been in his life now (which still is around the healthy weight range for his height and is still around 10 kg lighter than me)
So I said to him yesterday someone commented that I've lost weight today and they noticed and I was all excited about it because it's the first time someone has noticed and said something about it. I don't really go on about how much weight I've lost all the time, I do on here because I feel safe to talk about it but anyway.... I don't do it in real life that much except to one friend from play group who is losing some as well. Anyway... he says to me "It's come off your face" Now what the heck does that mean? I'm standing there looking at him wondering what he is going on about, then he says "it has - go and have a look" So I go and have a look and I don't look so chubby in the cheeks but I just thought it was really odd thing to say.
Ah well, I guess that's why we go so well together lol, we just puzzle each other and try to figure each other out. It's alright - he can't figure me out either lol. You would think after almost 6 years.....