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My heart is telling me intolerance of gays is WRONG

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Thankyou for your opinion McMike. Perhaps I can put things into persective for you. You might like to consider the following facts.

There are 770 verses in the bible that refer to marriage. None refer to homosexuals. Therefore the evidence is that God does not recognise homosexual marriage and by extension homosexuality.

Next, in Rom 1:18 [it says that the] wrath of God is revealed from Heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness.

What is this ungodliness and unrighteousness? Lets have a look.....

Rom 1:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust toward one another; males with males working out shamefulness, and receiving in themselves the recompense which was fitting for their error.

This by the way is only one example of it. Homosexuality is not singled out for condemation by itself.

Again, let us look at another passage....

1Co 6:9 Do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor abusers, nor homosexuals,
1Co 6:10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

From the following verse, it was obvious that the Corinthian church had many who were part of this list before conversion.

1Co 6:11 And such were some of you. But you are washed, but you are sanctified, but you are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.

One has to ask a logical question. If God creats us homosexual, why does the bible talk about people that were homosexual but no longer are. By your argument we are born drunkards, extortioners, fornicators, adulterers etc, so we can't change. The scriptures make it quite clear that is not the case.

One thing I have to ask is where is the evidence that God made some homosexual? Genesis says we are made in God's image. If you read the scriptures regarding God's image and there are too many to go into here, you will not find one that shows God is a homosexual so if we are made in his image, we can't be made homosexual as there is no image to model.

The militant homosexual movement, which I and others call the gaystapo, know that its strongest opposition to its demands is the church. Therefore its policy is to denigrate it anyway it can using such things as reinterpreting scripture to debunk what it says about homosexuality. This effort has been thoroughly scrutinised and found to be totally false.

They then invented the idea that you are born homosexual and God made me that way so it can't be wrong. This was done to back the church in to a corner as being bigots and intolerant. This has not been able to get any traction as the supposed scientific research that proves this has sunk without trace.

We are left then with only one explanation of a deviant sexuality invented by satan to distort God's intention for society who intended the family to be the basis on which society is built. That is why some homosexuals are on record as saying that they want to destroy marriage.
Your logic fails completely. So since God doesn't specifically say blonds can marry than we must say they can't. How about people over six feet tall? It doesn't specifically say they can marry so we must think they can't.

As for your quoting of scriptures...

Would you mind letting me know why homophobes always insist on starting off their Romans scripture with "For this reason" which is an incomplete paragraph? If you included the entire paragraph one realizes this has nothing to do with orientation but the Pagans rejecting God and practicing idolatry.

As for Corinthians, it was condemning masturbation, and not homosexuality, less than a hundred years ago. So did they have it wrong then and now have it right or maybe the text changes with whatever the Church is trying to condemn at the moment. Paul did not use any Greek term to describe sex between men but said "soft" as in morals and "male bed".

And where exactly does the Bible talk about people who were homosexual but are no longer? That's the biggest lie of all so far. You're also trying to tell me God is heterosexual? Man, how loony are you? It's unreal your side has to resort to flat-out lies in order to make it's point. But, and no offense here, you're probably old, right? The best news for the LGBT community is homophobes tend to be the old people and they're the ones that die off first.

The Bible was used to justify racism and God was the excuse to deny blacks their equal rights. The same is being done with the LGBT community.
 
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I am sorry, I did not read all the posts but I do want to share what I believe. The bible says homosexuality is a sin and so I believe it is. But so is my own lust, anger, greed, lying, vanities and so many other sins I struggle with everyday. As a Christian I try (TRY! but fail most of the time since I have an ornery disposition) to treat others with kindness, compassion and dignity - straight or gay.

Aren't we all sinners? There are so many gay people who have been more Christlike than I have been- have been more compassionate, have served and loved others more than I have. Nothing will stop me from treating a gay person with kindness, dignity and extending friendship when there is an opportunity. They will probably have to tolerate me.
 
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I am sorry, I did not read all the posts but I do want to share what I believe. The bible says homosexuality is a sin and so I believe it is. But so is my own lust, anger, greed, lying, vanities and so many other sins I struggle with everyday.

I hope you don't mind my input to clarify. The bible does not say being homosexual, angry or in other imperfect conditions are in and of themselves sinful. Acting out sinfully because of those conditions is the sin. We are called to rise above our worldliness in the example Jesus gave us.
Peace.
 
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I hope you don't mind my input to clarify. The bible does not say being homosexual, angry or in other imperfect conditions are in and of themselves sinful. Acting out sinfully because of those conditions is the sin. We are called to rise above our worldliness in the example Jesus gave us.
Peace.

No problem :) I will respond to your statement, We are called to rise above our worldliness in the example Jesus gave us. I beg to disagree, I think we were called to share the Good News first and foremost and I trust the Spirit of God is powerful enough to give healing and wisdom to all of us and would help all of us rise above our worldliness. It is not up to me to be intolerant of homosexuality because I have decided for a gay person that he/she cannot accept wisdom from God. The only thing a Christian can do is to show kindness and the compassion of Christ and more importantly, his offer of reconciliation to every human being.

Any sinner knows his sin- we all have enough guilt. It is not up to me to humiliate or tell anyone they are not acceptable. Gay people already know what Christians think of them. With the marginalization, the bullying, the beatings and most of the time from the hands of people calling themselves Christians.

I think what they need to hear now is that Jesus died for everyone's sins including all my "straight person's sins" and they are all welcome to worship and commune with us in our houses of worship. I believe the grace of God is great enough to cover mankind's multitude of sins.

How great is the love of God? Isn't God love himself?

Peace :)
 
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No problem :) I will respond to your statement, We are called to rise above our worldliness in the example Jesus gave us. I beg to disagree, I think we were called to share the Good News first and foremost and I trust the Spirit of God is powerful enough to give healing and wisdom to all of us and would help all of us rise above our worldliness.

Ok but I think that is another way of saying what I did. I think we actually agree and these are only semantics of language.

My point was more about the condition of being homosexual not being a sin in itself. The actions of a homosexual lifestyle are what scripture call sin, not the condition.

I essentially agree with the rest of your post as well.


And also with you. ;)
 
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Ok but I think that is another way of saying what I did. I think we actually agree and these are only semantics of language.

My point was more about the condition of being homosexual not being a sin in itself. The actions of a homosexual lifestyle are what scripture call sin, not the condition.

I essentially agree with the rest of your post as well.



And also with you. ;)


what a beautiful thing...for Christians to finally agree on something :D :thumbsup:
 
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Your logic fails completely. So since God doesn't specifically say blonds can marry than we must say they can't. How about people over six feet tall? It doesn't specifically say they can marry so we must think they can't.

Not relevant and a red herring

Would you mind letting me know why homophobes always insist on starting off their Romans scripture with "For this reason" which is an incomplete paragraph?

Can't help you on that one because I don't know any christians that have an inordinate fear of homosexuality.

As for Corinthians, it was condemning masturbation, and not homosexuality, less than a hundred years ago. So did they have it wrong then and now have it right or maybe the text changes with whatever the Church is trying to condemn at the moment. Paul did not use any Greek term to describe sex between men but said "soft" as in morals and "male bed".

I prefer the the understanding of the text that is held by 99% of theologians and biblical linguists. As I said, the reinventing of the text by homosexuals has been thoroughly debunked.

And where exactly does the Bible talk about people who were homosexual but are no longer? That's the biggest lie of all so far.
You obviously have not read what I set out so I will do it again for you.
1Co 6:9 You know that wicked people will not inherit the kingdom of God, don't you? Stop deceiving yourselves! Sexually immoral people, idolaters, adulterers, male prostitutes, homosexuals, 1Co 6:10 thieves, greedy people, drunks, slanderers, and robbers will not inherit the kingdom of God. 1Co 6:11 That is what some of you were! But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.
You're also trying to tell me God is heterosexual? Man, how loony are you? It's unreal your side has to resort to flat-out lies in order to make it's point.
Rather than indulging in pejorative and abusive language, perhaps you might like to provide evidence that I am wrong?????

But, and no offense here, you're probably old, right? The best news for the LGBT community is homophobes tend to be the old people and they're the ones that die off first.
What a peculiar claim. First of all, God is a lot older than me and he does not have an inordinate fear of homosexuals and he has no intention of dying off any time soon, so age has nothing to do with it. Having said that having been a teacher, I am aware that young people think they know everything, except that pride goes before a fall.

The Bible was used to justify racism and God was the excuse to deny blacks their equal rights. The same is being done with the LGBT community.
I have never used the bible to justify racism or deny anyone an equal right to know the saving grace of God for themselves.
 
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the bible not the church should be the ultimate authority on life, morality etc.

Such an idea is historically unfounded unless you think Christianity began in the 16th century.

love the person hate the sin.

A dangerous line to walk that not many can do correctly.
 
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Condemnation is not at all a part of what any of us were talking about.

If you see condemnation in any of it, then by all means, lay out your accusation clearly rather than speaking so generally.
Sorry I ment judge. We are not to judge. Only God may Judge.

As for loving completely, well, that sounds like a Jesus created in the wiched hearts of men (if I'm understanding your use of that term correctly), because God's word says this:

Ps 5:5 The foolish shall not stand in thy sight: thou hatest all workers of iniquity.

That doesn't look like loving completely.
Perhaps completely was wrong. We are told to love others as ourselves, But perhaps your right. Perhaps the Jesus I believe in is one created in the wicked hearts of men. I will try to study further and hopefully get it right eventually. I am an imperfect human after all and fully accept that I need to constantly check my beliefs, to make sure they are as correct as possible.

How do you define "intolerant"?
unwillingness to recognize and respect differences in opinions or beliefs.

Well, I've observed from you what appears to be a contradiction of God's very word, so where are you REALLY getting your information?

The world's definition of intolerance is so loose that disagreement is deemed as a form of intolerance. Are you just another product of the foolishness we see and hear from media and activist groups who hate so completely anyone who dares disagree with them, that they have the audacity to label their foes as intolerant?

If you're not one of them, then you're treading the line very closely.

I'd be very careful about how you define intolerance, because.....others are watching.....


BTW
Perhaps I am just a product of the foolishness we hear from media and activist groups. Again, I accept that I am far from perfect and get things wrong alot of the time. I hope I will learn where my foolishness comes from and that I will apply the lessons I learn and will become better than I am at this time. I always do my best to be a better person everyday. Thank you for your time and desire to correct me. :hug:
 
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Hi everyone,

I am a 23-year-old Catholic -- and I consider myself ideallogically "Liberal" (although I vote Conservative in Canada).

I know that in the Bible and in the Church homosexuality is considered wrong, something I can get my head around, but I can't get my heart to accept it.

I feel like science has proved to us that homosexuality is not a choice. People can't help it, no more than they can help their skin colour. Is it right to be intolerant to these people? I am really struggling with the idea of the Church not being tolerant to homosexual people.:sorry:
Romans 1:26-27 ''For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.'' Homosexuality is immoral. The Bible variously describes it as 'degrading passions', 'shameful passions', 'indecent acts' and 'vile affections'.
Read up @ What the Bible says about Lesbians and Gays – Save the World-Prayers and Sermons
Save the World- Christian Prayers and Sermons|Babatope Babalobi
 
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Romans 1:26-27 ''For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.'' Homosexuality is immoral. The Bible variously describes it as 'degrading passions', 'shameful passions', 'indecent acts' and 'vile affections'.
Read up @ What the Bible says about Lesbians and Gays – Save the World-Prayers and Sermons
Save the World- Christian Prayers and Sermons|Babatope Babalobi
 
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Hi, I received a post from your concerning homosexuality and your conviction that homosexuality is more of a determined response and not a matter of choosing. You agree with some scientific understanding that it is determined. I am a Christian theist who has been struggling for the past several years with several Christian traditions that espouse determinism in principal. These traditions believe that God has determined some people to go to hell and others to go to heaven. Now I need to be clear about what I am saying so you do not get the idea that these traditions are completely off center about biblical truths.
Most of what Christians believe today are rooted in either Reformed Augustine theism or Armenian Free willed theism. The differences between the above theisms is that on the one hand reformed theologians believe that god is a sovereign being so that whatever happens happens without taking him by surprise. This implies that god has to be aware of all things and has allowed all things both good and evil to exist because it is his sovereign will that approves of it. The free will theists do not agree with this idea of total absolute sovereignty and say that contingent beings like ourselves have a certain amount of freedom to decide our futures.. God has given us this freedom and by so doing allowed us to make free moral choices . Free will theists believe in libertarian freedom. This concept is necessary for putting responsability into its proper context when we contemplate good and evil choices that we all have before us.
I am a free will theist. As such I believe that for true free will to exist we must be able to choose between two opposing things. Now what a Determinist believes is rooted in words like Fate and phrases like ,” Whatever will be will be”. These all have their roots in Platonic theology. If you study the early Christian writers like Augustine and medieval theologians like St. Thomas Aquinas you will find that their ideas are both biblically and philosophically managed. Their philosophies have licensed them to intertwine platonic ideas with their theistic arguments about how are lives are managed by God. As such these thinkers have been influenced by Plato and Aristotle and other Greek thinkers who espouse fate and determinism as part and parcel of our daily lives. These biblical theists believed that God had determined all events before the foundation of the world.
Are you aware of this? Do you believe that you have no free will to determine your own destiny? Are all events already written in stone as the Greeks have said and so we all play out our parts in life like automatons?
I do not discount everything that these Christian thinkers say as they have given us many important things to think about concerning our lives before our maker. Although I disagree with their ideas on predetermined events (predestination) including future free will actions as being already laid out in some kind of eternal format .
However , I agree with most everything else that they say concerning our responsibility for our actions as we are told that God will judge us for what we do and say. What we do and say in our temporal lives carries on into eternity.
If this is so then how can God hold us accountable if our choices are not really free choices.
The bible says that all have sinned and come short of the glory of God. In his epistle John 1:8 it says, “If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.. And James says in his epistle, James 1:14-15 (New International Version, ©2011)
14 but each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. 15 Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.
To say that we have no choice in these matters is to disallows the Grace of God to change people into his image and makes humanistic allowances that confuse and pervert the truth.
I may be wrong about my free will but when I look at the biblical narratives about how god interacts with people it is always in a relational way that God commands and waits on people to obey. If he require us to obey and we can’t then we need to humble ourselves before him and ask him for the grace necessary to overcome our inabilities. We have that choice before us. We should not deny God his will in this matter.. These choices may involve pain and suffering including sacrificing what we want to what we know we should be doing. Intuitively and by conviction.
 
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Hi everyone,

I am a 23-year-old Catholic -- and I consider myself ideallogically "Liberal" (although I vote Conservative in Canada).

I know that in the Bible and in the Church homosexuality is considered wrong, something I can get my head around, but I can't get my heart to accept it.

I feel like science has proved to us that homosexuality is not a choice. People can't help it, no more than they can help their skin colour. Is it right to be intolerant to these people? I am really struggling with the idea of the Church not being tolerant to homosexual people.:sorry:

It's nice to know the Catholic Faith does actually have liberal adherents!

It seems like most of the liberals are getting chased away by the right wing, who then wonder why the church isn't appealling to young people anymore.

I should point out that science hasn't proven anything as yet. All the data suggests that hormones and genes have an influence, but the actual strength of this influence nobody really knows yet. That said, I don't think it's unreasonable to assume that genetics and hormones play a larger part in most cases than social factors, and certainly a far larger part than choice!


Thankyou for your opinion McMike. Perhaps I can put things into persective for you. You might like to consider the following facts.

There are 770 verses in the bible that refer to marriage. None refer to homosexuals. Therefore the evidence is that God does not recognise homosexual marriage and by extension homosexuality.

There are, as has been previously pointed out, verses which refer to marriage which are completely ok with polygamy, a practise which we have since abandoned. I'm not sure it's fair to take these writings out of their cultural context. And since homosexuality is a 19th century discovery (Foucault; 1979, History of Sexuality - prior to the advent of psychoanalysis one was defined by acts rather than attraction, thus one would be a sodomite rather than a homosexual) they probably wouldn't contain many references to homosexuality as we now understand it.

On that basis I think it makes more sense to understand these categories in terms of the principles being espoused in the text, rather than just the culturally specific manifestations of those principles which are recorded.

Next, in Rom 1:18 [it says that the] wrath of God is revealed from Heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who suppress the truth in unrighteousness.

What is this ungodliness and unrighteousness? Lets have a look.....

Rom 1:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust toward one another; males with males working out shamefulness, and receiving in themselves the recompense which was fitting for their error.

This by the way is only one example of it. Homosexuality is not singled out for condemation by itself.
If memory serves (and it might not do - it's been some time) was this passage not originally a specific condemnation of Greek religious traditions which sometimes involved eroticism?

Again, let us look at another passage....

1Co 6:9 Do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor abusers, nor homosexuals,
1Co 6:10 nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.

From the following verse, it was obvious that the Corinthian church had many who were part of this list before conversion.
I am going to have to challenge that translation. If the word in 1Co 6:9 had been homosexuals I would accept the argument, however I don't think it was. As I have pointed out, the modern concept of homosexuality has roots in the 19th century, so any exact translation would be difficult, however perhaps the closest Greek word available to St. Paul would have been the term "Paederast" (which was the attraction to androgenous youths who were at the beginning of their adulthood), however this is not the term he used. The actual word used was "Arsenokoitai".

The accurate translation for this has been lost to us, however the word has two constituent parts; "ars" (man) and "koitai" (beds), so we can take a guess. As has already been pointed out between the 15th and the 19th centuries this was translated as a warning against masturbation.

In the Vulgate text you will find the list as follows;

"An nescitis quia iniqui regnum Dei non possidebunt nolite errare neque fornicarii neque idolis servientes neque adulteri neque molles neque masculorum concubitores neque fures neque avari neque ebriosi neque maledici neque rapaces regnum Dei possidebunt"


There are two entries here which are conflated in translation to the term "homosexual", the first "those who have sex with men" is the translation of the word "Arsenokoitai" which I have already pointed out is a dubious translation. The other "those who are not masculine" is a translation of the greek term "malakoi" (or "effeminate"). It should be noted that some linguists (such as Justin Canon, 2005, The Bible Christianity & Homosexuality) think that malakoi was a term which had a much wider usage; covering not only the effeminate, but also temple prostitutes.

The early translations of these two chastisements as being "those who abuse themselves with mankind" would therefore not necessarily be taken as a repudiation of homosexuality so much as a reaffirmation of the value of monogamy and sex as the expression of love between a couple.
 
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