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See a doctor - that's a huge part of getting better. You need to see someone who can give you advice and help you out by putting you on an eating plan. You also need to see somebody like a counsellor or therapist who can help you talk through these problems and work them out, or at least learn how to control them.

It's no good fixing the symptoms - you must fix the cause.

Keep posting in this forum for support and encouragement. We are all here for you. :hug:
 
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Robwen said:
Im a compulsive overeater and over 300lbs. Alot of it is due to trying to deal with the loss of my son. But im sick of letting food control me. Where do i begin?


Know that God is in control. Surrender your control and let Him lead. He is faithful.
May His blessing fill your days.
Huggers. Kim
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Robwen said:
Im a compulsive overeater and over 300lbs. Alot of it is due to trying to deal with the loss of my son. But im sick of letting food control me. Where do i begin?
I think you just began because you admitted you have a problem. Get help for it professionally and find others who are dealing with overeating, so you can develop a support network. Eating disorders can be fought through support and treatment - just reach out or start looking for the support you know you need.

I have online resources and information about forums online that are specific to eating disorders, as I belong to a very large forum online specifically on the topic of eating disorders --- I have found much comfort and peace being a member there. PM me if you would like the information.
 
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Robwen said:
Im a compulsive overeater and over 300lbs. Alot of it is due to trying to deal with the loss of my son. But im sick of letting food control me. Where do i begin?
I lost my Father not long ago and I came across a prayer and poem that seem to reach me and comfort me. I'd like to share them with you.


We seem to give our loved ones back to You, dear Lord, who gave them to us. As You did not lose them in giving, so we have not lost them by their return to You. For what is Yours is ours always. And life is eternal, and love is immortal, and what we call death is only a horizon which is the limit of our sight but a means to Your eternal light. Lift us up, strong Son of God, that we may see further. Open our eyes that we may see more clearly, that in drawing nearer to You, we may draw nearer to those whom we love who are with You. Amen.

To My Loving Family and Friends
I give you this one thought to keep --
I am with you still -- I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,

I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift, uplifting rush
of quiet birds in circled flight.

I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not think of me as gone --
I am with you still -- in each new dawn.

I am with God!
The closer you are to Him
The closer I am to you my dear family and friends.

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My Dad said he was going to the big dipper in the sky a week before God took him.
I hope this helps.

May you find His peace in your heart.
Kim

May God be extra gentle with you
 
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