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My bf dumped me

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I'm not going to go into details cuz honestly it isn't anyone's business. I do have some advice though, until you're really ready to get married pretty much avoid the topic, it makes you to attached. Right now I really dislike guys (sorry guys):doh: , but I thought I could trust my bf, and I couldn't so I don't know who I can trust, anyway, what I'm really asking for is prayer. Prayer to accept, forgive, move on, take him back, whatever God's will is. Thanks :help:
 
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I'm sorry. My ex-bf dumped me back in Oct. We were serious. It really broke my heart. I was able to forgive him. He helped me buy my car in Dec. and now we pray for each other's needs even though we only communicate through email. At one point I wished that I had never met him, but now I can say that I'm glad he came into my life.
 
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I have had my heart broken back in September by my bf of 3 years and for me, it was completely devastating(the pain i had didnt end until 4 months later). So, I pretty much know how you feel. And it's okay you won't go into details. It's your own business, as you said.
I shall pray for you!
 
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Yeah We always get heart broken. Last year I am also heart broken. I wish we never knew each other before so that so manything will not happen among us. But I still have to say thank to him because he let me realize what is call true love. I really love him but there is few reason cause us cannot be together.

I am never regret because I knew god have HIS purpose of doing it. I knew god will sent the more best person than previous guy.

Dun be sad that he damn you. Because some one who is best who u can trust will come soon to u. I will pray for you too.
 
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Blessed Be Your Name
In the land that is plentiful
Where Your streams of abundance flow
Blessed be Your name

Blessed Be Your name
When I'm found in the desert place
Though I walk through the wilderness
Blessed Be Your name

Every blessing You pour out
I'll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

Blessed be Your name
When the sun's shining down on me
When the world's 'all as it should be'
Blessed be Your name

Blessed be Your name
On the road marked with suffering
Though there's pain in the offering
Blessed be Your name

Every blessing You pour out
I'll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

You give and take away
You give and take away
My heart will choose to say
Lord, blessed be Your name

Prepare for most like one of the hardest times in your life (if not the hardest). You will feel insecure, your self image will take a serious blow and it will be worse than imaginable. Grieve, it is ok to be hurt. It is ok to be real and show you are hurt (of course in the right way...I am sure you understand). But God has great things for you if you just turn to him. I know from experience. Think of this...God gives of us everything we need, and we need trials for growth. This is a gift and GOD WILL pull through if you turn to Him. His power is breathtaking, His beauty is like no other. He will give you something back that will fill the void in your heart that has recently been opened. It will be His love and it will be better than imaginable. I know it is so freakishly cliche in the serious Christian ring to hear things like this...it is said all the time yet I would say the majority (like myself) fail to completely follow it. But God will come through. He is there for you. And He has a love we cannot comprehend. Everything we know is finite yet His love is eternal...it is infinte, boundless, immeasurable. This time of your life will be hard, but you have a warrior on your side...He handled to cross...He can easily handle this.

It will get better, I promise.
 
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chrisd53 said:
Blessed Be Your Name
In the land that is plentiful
Where Your streams of abundance flow
Blessed be Your name

Blessed Be Your name
When I'm found in the desert place
Though I walk through the wilderness
Blessed Be Your name

Every blessing You pour out
I'll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

Blessed be Your name
When the sun's shining down on me
When the world's 'all as it should be'
Blessed be Your name

Blessed be Your name
On the road marked with suffering
Though there's pain in the offering
Blessed be Your name

Every blessing You pour out
I'll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name

You give and take away
You give and take away
My heart will choose to say
Lord, blessed be Your name

Prepare for most like one of the hardest times in your life (if not the hardest). You will feel insecure, your self image will take a serious blow and it will be worse than imaginable. Grieve, it is ok to be hurt. It is ok to be real and show you are hurt (of course in the right way...I am sure you understand). But God has great things for you if you just turn to him. I know from experience. Think of this...God gives of us everything we need, and we need trials for growth. This is a gift and GOD WILL pull through if you turn to Him. His power is breathtaking, His beauty is like no other. He will give you something back that will fill the void in your heart that has recently been opened. It will be His love and it will be better than imaginable. I know it is so freakishly cliche in the serious Christian ring to hear things like this...it is said all the time yet I would say the majority (like myself) fail to completely follow it. But God will come through. He is there for you. And He has a love we cannot comprehend. Everything we know is finite yet His love is eternal...it is infinte, boundless, immeasurable. This time of your life will be hard, but you have a warrior on your side...He handled to cross...He can easily handle this.

It will get better, I promise.
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very well said
 
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