- Feb 4, 2021
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- Married
Hi, everyone!
My story is that I got married in 2020. In December my husband and I went to his home country where he started being physically abusive and his sister hated me. I got pregnant and he said that it’s not his child and that I cheated on him.
I never cheated on him and the child is his. But I left and since then he’s never asked about the baby. I’m going through the divorce now, but I’ve been wondering if I should tell him anything - gender, name, date of birth?
In a way, since he doesn’t care, why would I? But also, it’s his child, and shouldn’t he know this stuff about his baby?
What do you think? I’ve asked God to help me make a decision but so far I haven’t been led to a confident path on the issue.
I am also afraid that if I tell him something then he will just tell me again that it’s not his child. I’m afraid that will hurt me again and I’ll feel the pain for my baby as well.
Thank you for your thoughts!
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My story is that I got married in 2020. In December my husband and I went to his home country where he started being physically abusive and his sister hated me. I got pregnant and he said that it’s not his child and that I cheated on him.
I never cheated on him and the child is his. But I left and since then he’s never asked about the baby. I’m going through the divorce now, but I’ve been wondering if I should tell him anything - gender, name, date of birth?
In a way, since he doesn’t care, why would I? But also, it’s his child, and shouldn’t he know this stuff about his baby?
What do you think? I’ve asked God to help me make a decision but so far I haven’t been led to a confident path on the issue.
I am also afraid that if I tell him something then he will just tell me again that it’s not his child. I’m afraid that will hurt me again and I’ll feel the pain for my baby as well.
Thank you for your thoughts!
Y