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just read romans 14, its all about if it sits right in your spirit then do it, or in this case listen to it. if your spirit is saying 'arrgghh this is bad, this is bad!!' then stiop lisening to it.
mabye try just not listening to music all together. and see if your attitude or mindset actually changes.
 
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Hey man...

Well I'm now awake again so I'll address what you wrote :)

As opposed to quoting each line you wrote and examining them individually, I'm simply going to sum up what I assume your position to be, and then challenge it with what's written in the Bible (since I think it's time to insert an objective standard)

Basically, what I understand is this: You believe that we must simply believe and accept that Jesus died for us. Our ways and action may change, but our salvation is not at all dependant on them. Am I correct?

Ok. Well my position is that we are saved by grace (after we REPENT)...but that we must also turn from wickedness in order to recieve that grace (how can you REPENT but not change your ways? It's an empty apology). I don't believe you can be a Christian (and by that I simply mean Christ-follower....I don't agree with all the strings society attaches to that term either.....so by "Christian" I ONLY mean Christ-follower...which is basically the definition of that word)

Now...here are some passages that clearly back up my points and make it quite obviously that we must turn from wickedness. There is no "I'm a Christian...but make no effort not to sin".

Matthew Chapter 3:

1In those days John the Baptist came, preaching in the Desert of Judea 2and saying, "Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is near."

Why repent if you're not actually sorry for sinning? And/or...if you're sorry for sinning how can you continue to sin without guilt? Your position seems to be that there is no need for repentance or changing-of-ways because we recieve salvation freely without cost. But as I've stated many times....we recieve it because we are also willing to change after we repent for our sins.

Mark Chapter 6:

12They went out and preached that people should repent. 13They drove out many demons and anointed many sick people with oil and healed them.

Once again....we need to repent....and with repentance comes change (or else it's not honest repentance)

Galations Chapter 5

16So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. 17For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want. 18But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under law.

Sinful nature desires are contrary to the spirit. You can't be "in the spirit" if you are still fulfilling your sinful desires!

Matthew Chapter 5:

21"You have heard that it was said to the people long ago, 'Do not murder,[a] and anyone who murders will be subject to judgment.' 22But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother[b]will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to his brother, 'Raca,[c]' is answerable to the Sanhedrin. But anyone who says, 'You fool!' will be in danger of the fire of hell.

So you can still be in danger of hellfire on account of your actions? Interesting.

Matthew Chapter 5:

29If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.

Once again, we're clearly commanded to stop sinning.

Ephesians Chapter 5:

15Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, 16making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. 18Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit. 19Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, 20always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

We are once again commanded not to sin.

Luke Chapter 9:

62Jesus replied, "No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God."

The context of this verse deals with earthly possessions (the man wanted to bury his dead father)...but the underlying meaning still holds true. We must turn completely from our old lives in order to follow the Lord.

James Chapter 5:

19My brothers, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring him back, 20remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of his way will save him from death and cover over a multitude of sins.

In other words, if a Christian begins to wander from the truth (ie...turns back to his/her evil ways), his soul is in danger of death once again....but if he turns around and heads back down the narrow Christian path again, his soul is saved.

Salvation is given freely to those who accept it, repent, and leave their evil ways.

1 John Chapter 2:

15Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16For everything in the world—the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does—comes not from the Father but from the world. 17The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever.

Can't get much clearer. You can't love God and not leave your wicked ways.

Romans Chapter 13:

11And do this, understanding the present time. The hour has come for you to wake up from your slumber, because our salvation is nearer now than when we first believed. 12The night is nearly over; the day is almost here. So let us put aside the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light. 13Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in orgies and drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and jealousy. 14Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature.[c]

Once again, we must not sin (although this passage doesn't deal directly with salvation, it still gets the point across that our lives should be different from sinners)

Acts Chapter 2:

38Peter replied, "Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit. 39The promise is for you and your children and for all who are far off—for all whom the Lord our God will call."

Once again, repentence (and thus making a choice to live righteously) is definitely an important factor when it comes to salvation.

2 Timothy Chapter 2:

19Nevertheless, God's solid foundation stands firm, sealed with this inscription: "The Lord knows those who are his,"[a] and, "Everyone who confesses the name of the Lord must turn away from wickedness."

Wow! It can't get much clearer! Everyone who confesses Jesus' name must turn from wickedness!

Matthew Chapter 6:

24"No one can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and Money.

I realize this is talking about money, but the idea that "man cannot serve two masters" is universal in all areas of our lives. If we still allow our earthly desires to control us (ie...we make no effort to supress them), we are therefore serving them! How can one serve Christ and the World at the same time? It's impossible. In order for a person to serve Christ, he/she must turn away from the ways of the world.

That's enough scripture for now....I hope that's enough for you to get the idea :)

Clearly, we must turn from wickedness if we want salvation....but once we do turn from wickedness and repent (as we are commanded to do over and over and over again in the gospels....in fact, that's the entire gospel message in a nutshell!), then we can recieve life.

But if you simply say "sure I believe Jesus died for me", but continue to live sinfully, you are no more a Christian than the next non-believer because your words are empty.

Does it make sense now? ;) We are not saved by works...we are saved by grace. But we are only entitled to that free gift once we pledge our allegiance to Christ and turn from wickedness (and it's impossible to pledge allegiance to Christ and remain wicked....so that's the catch).

Ta-ta for now :D
 
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And that's cool and I respect that! Once again...lol...drinking isn't an issue .....swearing on the other hand is something we're told not to do (there's no "thou shalt not say ****"....but we are told to hold our tongues if something good isn't about to come out of it )

And what exactly governs a good or bad word - you have a perspective of what that is and I have a perspective of what that is and I'm sure we don't agree on it , but that is all it is, a perspective, a cultural thing.

You commented on my previous post on culture; that just because it was cultural it didn't make it right, and that is true, but who are you to say whose culture is right - just because you disagree with our culture which includes swearing does not mean that our culture is wrong.

Most of the Christians I know swear to a greater or lesser extent, I don't have a problem with it, and they don't have a problem with it. I know you disagree but I don't think just because someone swears it belittles their witness, you have to look at the whole picture, and most people do look at the whole picture (in fact picking on just one aspect makes it a narrowminded opinion of a person IMHO)



...but as long as you realize that, and are making an effort to stop it or at least tone it down (the first step to stopping)...you're good to go ;)

No I am not as I don't see it as an issue :p ;)

(I am however capable of having a conversation without swearing ;) )

Remember, from the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Saying a certain word is completely arbitrary to whatever culture you live in and whatever language you speak. I could walk up to someone in China and scream whatever bad word I wanted to and they probably would have no idea what I'm saying....but emotions and intents are universal, and that's what God looks at....your heart :)

IMHO if you replace a naughty word with what you would deem an exceptable word (eg flip or heck), the context and implication is there so IMHO it is just as "bad" as the word it replaces.
 
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ivan,
I'd rather not go into a verse war, I don't think that'll help anything, but I'll offer a few of my own takes on some of the verses you quoted. If I wanted, of course, I could quote hudnreds of verses from the epistles about how salvation is by grace and not works, but I hate those "bible battles".

I don't think Jesus would actually want any of us to chop off our arm. As he said so Himself, he was sent to the Jews (who rejected Him) and I think He was making a point, showing people what they would actually need to do if they wanted to be righteous by the law/works.

Also, personally, I keep in mind who Jesus was talking to, and the circumstance and time.

Basically, my problem with the view present, is that one the one hand you say it's all by grace, and on the other you're saying that we have to do this or that. I simply can't see how that would still be grace. It's either a free gift, or it's earned. I don't see how your view doesn't mean that salvation isn't something we somehow deserve.

The fact that salvation comes by grace, received by faith, doesn't mean it's ok to sin, of course. But it does mean we have no hope outside of grace. And as Paul said (and I've experienced), my efforts amont to nothing but dirt. Every righteous thing I may do, is actually God working through me.
 
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Hi buttermilk,

You are correct...as I stated myself earlier....words (in the big picture) mean nothing on their own, and are completely arbitrary to the culture.

That being said, if a secular society considers a certain word a swearword (example..."damn" over "darn")....then we as Christians (who should be "shining lights of righteousness", and examples of the way Jesus would have lived) should definitely be making an effort to set ourselves apart from the sinful ways of the rest of the world. Whether that be anything from murdering, to swearing, to lying or whatever.

Most of the Christians I know swear to a greater or lesser extent,


Well then those Christians need to be slapped upside the head! ;)

Just because two or more people don't have a problem with each other doing something, doesn't make it right :)

Anyways...nuff said about that....onto holo :D

I'd rather not go into a verse war, I don't think that'll help anything


My intent was not to go into a "verse war". We've both stated up until that point that we were basing our statements on opinions alone. I thought it was time to bring in the Bible, since in the end, that's what we're discussing!

If I wanted, of course, I could quote hudnreds of verses from the epistles about how salvation is by grace and not works, but I hate those "bible battles".

If you can find one verse in the ENTIRE Bible that states we can recieve salvation without repentance (ie...a verse that says repentance isn't necessary), I'll fold my argument right here. That's what we're discussing after all....the issue is: do we need to repent and stop sinning to recieve salvation? Or simply believe that Christ died for us and continue living sinfully?

I don't think Jesus would actually want any of us to chop off our arm.


Of course not....he was making a point that we should do everything we can to stop every part of us from sinning, in order to avoid eternal punishment. Jesus will save you, yes...but only once you leave your ways and follow him. If there's a part of you still clinging to the world (your mind, your heart...whatever)...then you need to do whatever you can to get it back on the right track!

Also, personally, I keep in mind who Jesus was talking to, and the circumstance and time.


That's good. Context is always important.

Basically, my problem with the view present, is that one the one hand you say it's all by grace, and on the other you're saying that we have to do this or that.


That's incorrect. I've never said it's "all by grace", or that it's all "this or that". What I have said...is that you need to turn from wickedness in order to accept the grace that's being offered to you.

NOT turning from wickedness is the equivalent of NOT accepting the free gift God is offering you (whether or not you've "accepted" it in word)

Think of it like this:

You're playing video games. Your buddy walks up to you and says "hey...if you go for a ride with me, I'll buy you a burger". You can either:

a) Stop playing the game, go for the ride and get the burger

b) Keep playing the game and say "I don't want the burger"

c) Keep playing the game and say "sure...I'd like a burger"....at which point your friend will say "if you don't come for the ride, you're not getting a burger"

See the difference? In each scenario, the burger is still completely free.....the only difference being that you can't do 2 things at once, and cannot therefore play video games AND get the burger.

The same is true (although not as contrived lol) with Christ. He died on the Cross, said "follow me and you'll get eternal life". You can either:

a) Follow Christ, leave your sinful ways and recieve salvation

b) Say, "no thanks".

c) Say "Ok...I want salvation, but I still want to be able to live sinfully...I see no reason to change my ways since the gift is free either way", at which point Jesus will say "if you don't drop your sinful lifestyle and follow me, I'm not going to save you!"

In all three situations, salvation is still "free". Jesus isn't saying "if you follow me you can earn your salvation"...he's saying, "follow me and I'll give you salvation!" Biiiiig difference.

I hope that clears things up. As I've already stated....I don't believe in the "earning" of salvation one bit....what I do believe, is that you can't recieve the gift that Christ is offering unless you let go of the ways of the world.

It's kind of like that old Aesop's fable (or whoever wrote it). The kid reaches into a jar full of figs, grabs a whole handful of them and tries to pull his hand out...but it won't fit. In the end, he can't get his hand out unless he lets go of the figs. It's a catch-22...he can't have both...only one or the other. The same is true for Christianity. You can't be a Christ-follower if you still want to follow the ways of the world. You can either follow the ways of the world and not be a Christian, or follow Christ and not live sinfully. It has nothing to do with "earning" one or the other....it simply deals with pledging your allegiance to one or the other.

Make sense?

The fact that salvation comes by grace, received by faith, doesn't mean it's ok to sin, of course. But it does mean we have no hope outside of grace.


Correct! This is exactly what I've been trying to get at all along! We are saved by grace...but that does not make it okay to sin....because we only recieve grace once we leave our sinful lives.

That being said....we will fall...but as long as we get back up, repent, and continue striving for righteousness we have no worries! If, on the other hand, we choose to fall without repentance, we have turned our face on God and have rejected his gift of grace!
 
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Think of it like this:

Up until now, you've stood by the idea that since grace is completely free, there is nothing we should have to do to recieve it at all.....if that were true, even a mere confession of our faith (without changing our ways) is still "earning it", because it's something that we've had to do to "recieve" grace over the next sinner. Do you see what I mean? If Jesus just hands out grace freely to everyone without considering anything they've done, then every person on the earth should be saved!....otherwise it's not fair that Christians alone are saved since they've "earned" their salvation through confessing their faith in Christ (even without taking the next step of leaving their sinful lifestyle).

Do you see what I mean? and/or, why an argument that we need not do anything to recieve salvation makes all Christians look foolish?
 
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It is a non issue in Scotland or Ireland. It does not affect our walk or witness.


It's not whether or not "it's an issue" in a certain place....the Bible teaches us to control our tongues...so that's what we've got to do! :)

Cannibalism is regular practice in certain primitive tribes. Does that mean it's okay to kill and eat people? ;)
 
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Hmm.

ivan,
you're making a good case. But that's not how I've experienced God. Well, to be correct, when I read your last post I see how I viewed things for most of my life.
But I've met a Jesus who changed my heart. The Lord hasn't told me that "ok, here's the deal, I do this, you'll get it for free, but you must go this way or leave this or that." Oh no. He said, "come!"
I said, "but I'm not worthy."
He said, "I've already forgiven you."
"But I'll sin again."
"I know. I've taken that into account."
"But I can't live up to these demands."
"I have already lived up to them."
"But I'll bacslide again, I'm scared. You know I've relapsed just as many times as I've quit."
"Trust ME."
"But I still want to get high. I enjoy looking at filth. Also, I hate people."
"Come anyway."
"But what if..."
"Come!"
"But I don't even WANT to do good anymore. There's no way I'm good enough."
"COME!"

So I finally did. I came to Jesus. I brought with me my hate, my addictions, my filth, my rage, my anxiety, my medications, my drugs, the dirt under my nails, everything. I didn't quit anything, I didn't make a decicion to be a better person, not anything like that. I just came to Him.

You see, I was basically born a mess. I have practically no willpower, I'm lazy, and my morals are rotten. Even if I wanted to (and I did try many times), I have never been able to start or stop doing anything for the Lord. Every single thing I've tried has failed. No wonder I gave up.

But that's where, and when, Jesus was finally able to grab a hold of me - I stopped waving my arms and legs like a drowning fool. His grace was indeed enough for me.

So, I got to start all over. Another chance, a new life. I went at it with zeal, with conviction, with all I had. This time I was going to make it.
But I failed. Again.

You know why? Because I tried. Because I tried to do it.

Your view is well-founded and it seems very logical and christian-like and all that, but when you boil it down, it reduces people to two categories; those who make it and those who don't. Those who make it will almost invariably, and naturally, judge those who don't, and the latter group will invariably feel like losers and "bad christians".
It's avery common and human thing to do. I think it's what Paul refers to as "the righteousness that comes by the law".

But we all need His grace. I need it just as much now as when I first came to Him.
I've changed, alright. I'm blessing the people I used to curse, I'm loving those who treat me like dirt, I witness of His great works. I worship Him simply because He deserves it. No other reason. I treat people kindly because I love them, not because it's morally right or because the bible tells me to. And I love Jesus because He loves me. It has finally been revealed to me that He does in fact LOVE me. There's no way He'll let me down or judge me for falling. This love can't be "understood", it must be revealed, and until it's revealed, you're simply bound to live according to some kind of mixture of law and grace.

You see, God changes me from the inside, in the heart. That's the ONLY reason I'm drug free. It's the ONLY reason I love people and am increasingly patient. Etc.
It hasn't got a single thing to do with me laying aside this or repenting of that. It's simply a result of me running to Jesus. I didn't first cast off my sins or tendencies, I brought them to the cross. He lifted them right out of my hands.
That's the kind of God He is. That's how much He loves us.

And that's why I cling to Jesus more than the bible, more than theology, and certainly more than morality. A thousands professors and scholars couldn't convince me of Jesus being anything else than how He's revealed Himself to me.

And since this is what I've experienced, I obviously cannot judge anyone for anything. In fact, I feel obliged to defend them instead. I can't go about telling people they have to repent and stuff, because that's not the salvation I've been given. I've been given grace, forgiveness, mercy. That's the gospel; we are forgiven.
And as I share this truth with people, I see them gradually lose their chains, start loving the Lord, getting rid of their lousy conscience, and finally become free of the sins that used to hold them down and condemn them. It works.

That's why I love Bono for bringing attention to Jesus, because I know it can help maybe just one person who's stared himself blind at christian morality and demands and the incomplete (actually, I'd go so far as to call it false) gospel that says God does half the job, and you do the rest.
 
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That's no big deal man. Some of the music I listen to is probably the same music that they play in Hell.
But I thought they played Teen Pop in Hell... :D
Nope. Country. Hell would be the eternal country song anyway.
 
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I'm glad you've posted your testimony holo :)

You see, God changes me from the inside, in the heart. That's the ONLY reason I'm drug free. It's the ONLY reason I love people and am increasingly patient. Etc.
It hasn't got a single thing to do with me laying aside this or repenting of that. It's simply a result of me running to Jesus. I didn't first cast off my sins or tendencies, I brought them to the cross. He lifted them right out of my hands.

Either way, you've changed and have let Jesus live through you. Whether or not you "turn from wickedness" as a result of your own willpower through your love for Christ, or have recovered solely because of what Christ has done in you, you've changed...and that's ALL I've been trying to get at. As Christians, we've changed...and that necessary change is part of the Christ-follower package.

As for me, I dealt with a personal addiction for nearly 6 years before I was able to finally take control of my actions and change. In my situation, I had to make the choice and gain the willpower to make the change, and I did it because I love Jesus and I wanted to live up to his standard for my life.

In your situation, it was the opposite....but either way we've changed! Had we not changed (not just about the major things...but about anything), we'd be no better off than the next un-believing sinner...and that's been my point the entire time (and I can now see that it's also been yours, only you were coming from a different angle and perspective).

As for Bono...haha...well....I'm going to stay away from him ;) I think we've shared our views enough concerning his actions...and in the end, no matter how much I think his language is negating any Christian witness he may have and no matter how much you may think that he's a great role-model for those who feel Christianity shouldn't be about legalism...in the end, only God knows his heart and that's what really matters.

I'm glad we finally seem to be in agreement though, and praise God for what he's done in both of our lives! :)

I appreciate the discussion :)
 
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I've been looking deeper into the beliefs of Bono lately. While I don't agree with everything in his lifestyle, the man's faith is real.

I'll recommend reading the book "What's So Amazing About Grace?" by Philip Yancey. I'll also recommend reading "The Man Called Cash" about Johnny Cash and his faith.
 
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