I have been struggling with this situation for quite some time and I am not too sure how to proceed. I have a former friend who has been cheating on her husband, who is a soldier, for at least the past 18 months. She and her husband are both practicing Christians. He has been unfaithful in their marriage in the past as well. I have never agreed with what she was doing but I did not judge her for it. However, the other man is the head pastor of a church in a different state. We have recently had a falling out, and at this moment we are no longer friends. I have had my part in this as well, she went to visit him this summer and asked me to pick her up from the airport. As her friend I agreed but my conscience has been talking to me for quite some time about what I have done wrong. I am not sure how to proceed. As a Christian should I tell her husband when he gets back from his deployment of my part in this and ask his forgiveness? Should I contact the church and make them aware of what the pastor is doing? I do not want his actions that may be made public to make others stray from their walk with God. Or should I just keep quiet about it all. Although we are not friends, I do not want to do this with vengeance in my heart, but I feel like the truth should come out. Just not sure if it should come from me.