Sunlover, no that is not true. I never said that what Jesus said was wrong in any way. I just said that ONLY He has the authority and right to say such things...and that we don't. Only He can call someone a hypocrite without becoming a hypocrite Himself.
Yes I agree! But I do not see this love in the words of people who criticize Catholics. I'm sorry. I don't mean people who just disagree with some Catholic doctrines...
I mean people who say that Catholics and Orthodox are not Christians and don't know God. Or when people say the Pope isn't saved because they don't like something about him. Only God can judge stuff like that...this is what I meant
And if we see a brother or sister in sin we should help them, with love and compassion, but not judge or criticize them harshly...
we must speak the truth with love.
Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. (Colossians 3)
If anyone has caused grief, he has not so much grieved me as he has grieved all of you, to some extentnot to put it too severely. 6The punishment inflicted on him by the majority is sufficient for him. 7Now instead, you ought to forgive and comfort him, so that he will not be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. 8I urge you, therefore, to reaffirm your love for him. 9The reason I wrote you was to see if you would stand the test and be obedient in everything. 10If you forgive anyone, I also forgive him. And what I have forgivenif there was anything to forgiveI have forgiven in the sight of Christ for your sake, 11in order that Satan might not outwit us. For we are not unaware of his schemes. (2 Cor. 2)
Sunlover, I agree with you here, if you see a Christian falling away from faith, you should try and help them. What I meant is that there is a right and a wrong way to tell them...we should still speak with compassion, or else they would go even further away from the truth.
What I meant in my previous post was that if we see a hypocrite, for example, we can't just come up to them and say "you're a hypocrite and God will judge you..you don't love God". I know Jesus said this to some of the Pharisees, but you see He's allowed to, because He knew their hearts...and He is perfect... but we do not have that right. We should pray for them and maybe talk to them, but as sinners to other sinners, not as judges.
There is nothing wrong with judging doctrines. I just think it's wrong to judge someone else's relationship with God and say that they don't know Him, etc.
peace
monica