Being accused is still nothing to be proud of, correct?
Not sure what you're trying to convey by that?
My husband's friend's son got falsely accused of rape -
it finally came out that she was at a party and had sex w/
2 guys, and she tried to cover it up w/ that false story.
She later admitted it was bogus.
People are helpless to false accusations; esp. people with
deep pockets. & we'll never know this side of eternity if he was guilty or not.
To the OP -
I went thru mourning this weekend over losing him.
I watched the tv nonstop for all the MJ coverage - just devestated.
(I know others were sick of it, but when you're so shocked, it's all
you want to see in some ways).
He's an icon to my generation - a pioneer of music in our time.
HUGE loss no matter what his eccentricities.
I think alot of the sadness society feels (other than losing someone so
pivitol in music and video) is that so many discarded him and there's
an underlying
guilt attached to this as MJ just spiralled downward
and nobody really cared or worse, mocked him thru it all.
Yes, due to his bad choices in problems that he created which caused
further isolation and financial ruin - but this is quite common with creative talents.
There seems to be a connection w/ eccentricity and 'strangeness'
with true creative genius. (nevermind is horrific childhood which I believe caused
some of his serious hangups and inability to communicate w/ others on a normal level).
On specials this weekend, I was relieved to see that he did recieve good counsel
earlier on before he got so much worse from people who truly had his best interests at heart, but they claim he's a narcicist and what I know of narcicism (knowing 2 people personally who have that), they do not listen to counsel very well at all and reject most all correction.
I'm deeply sad over this, it's taught me alot personally about
judging celebrity and how we treat them in general when they're
in a downward spiral.
We feel vindicated to attack & mock them if they're "bad enough" or
wierd enough, etc.
I have always prayed for them and do care about them personally;
they are human beings like anyone else. For some reason, we
seem to ignore that they're lost and need a Saviour just as badly
as everyone else.
*One in need of heavy prayer right now is Patrick Swayze*