Men not [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] during sex.

[wanderingone]

Yes. It clearly shows a lack of will to procreate and is therefore a perversion of the purpose of sex.
It discriminates the woman in that it doesn´t allow her that which would give her ultimate fulfillment: her natural destination and purpose of being pregnant and being a mother. She is rightfully frustrated, and even if she´s not aware of it at that very moment, the psychological longterm consequences of being betrayed of your ultimate purpose are devastating.

They need to be put to death. Both.

 

[TeddyKGB]

Hmm. Sex is just so much better if everyone isn't focusing on [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] all of the time.

At least not on one's own. For us men, it's usually a sure thing.

 

[Autumnleaf]

He's is doing it because he is onto some Eastern religion trip where he is trying to see if sex without [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] will make him more creative and energetic.

 

[IzzyPop]

At least not on one's own. For us men, it's usually a sure thing.

Back when I was on Prozac, it sure wasn't. I was only good for one shot every other day. No matter how long we went at it, if I had popped the day before, I couldn't do it again. She loved it. I hated it. It was actually one of the reasons I stopped taking it. That and the runs, the sleeplessness, food tasting weird, and the complete inability for my eyes to adjust to sudden changes in light.

 

[RealDealNeverstop]

I tried to fake it. Once. Why? Like Kramer said on seinfeld, "It was late, I was tired, and had enough already." She laughed her butt off at me and I was like, that isn't fair! If women can fake guys should be able to as well! Lol.

To answer the op, immoral? No. Not even close.

 

[stan1980]

Back when I was on Prozac, it sure wasn't. I was only good for one shot every other day. No matter how long we went at it, if I had popped the day before, I couldn't do it again. She loved it. I hated it. It was actually one of the reasons I stopped taking it. That and the runs, the sleeplessness, food tasting weird, and the complete inability for my eyes to adjust to sudden changes in light.

Oddly those side effects are identical to cocaine, apart from you can sometimes [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] after taking coke, that and cocaine sex is just about the best thing in the world (let me reiterate, drugs are bad though). Does prozac make you talk crap for hours on end too?

 

[selfinflikted]

For some reason this seems to give many women a complex. Is it immoral?

Yes. It clearly shows a lack of will to procreate and is therefore a perversion of the purpose of sex.
It discriminates the woman in that it doesn´t allow her that which would give her ultimate fulfillment: her natural destination and purpose of being pregnant and being a mother. She is rightfully frustrated, and even if she´s not aware of it at that very moment, the psychological longterm consequences of being betrayed of your ultimate purpose are devastating.

They need to be put to death. Both.

^ This.

Srsly. You shouldn't rest, Autumn until GODS WILL IS DONE!

 

[Trevorocity]

Welp, the standards in this place have seriously gone downhill. There was a time when a comment such as 'blow his load' would have at least earned a warning. Incidentally is your friend some sort of tantric yogi?

Either or both. I'm referring to a friend who is polyamourous but decided to take a 30 day break from [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. It really made the women in his life upset. He would have sex but not 'blow his load'.

 

[Trevorocity]

At least not on one's own. For us men, it's usually a sure thing.

Still there are times in every man's life where he just would rather sleep than have a roll in the hay. What? I'm not allowed to have a headache, be exhausted and still have to get up at 5am to go to work? And stop doing that I'm asleep!

 

[IzzyPop]

Oddly those side effects are identical to cocaine, apart from you can sometimes [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] after taking coke, that and cocaine sex is just about the best thing in the world (let me reiterate, drugs are bad though). Does prozac make you talk crap for hours on end too?

Wow. I had never looked at it that way. The side effects were not as severe as cocaine, but much longer lasting.

 

[mpok1519]

I think women just get a little miffed when their man can't maintain an erection, but to think things like this are immoral is kinda dumb.

 

[Ramona]

This might sound hard to believe, but I wasn't always the great lover that I am today. Back in the day, I used to last about 30 seconds, but these days it's like a bloody marathon, sometimes I go on for two, maybe three whole minutes. Anyway, I digress, there has been times when I haven't [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] after having sex for a considerable time (we're talking hours here), but this has been more to do with the hard drugs I'd been taking beforehand. Back when I was a shadow of my current self in the sack, my girlfriend at the time used to love it when I'd been taking hard drugs, in fact she used to positively encourage it. Sometimes I would [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse], sometimes not, but the point is she used to love it either way, as she got far more penetrative sex than she would have under normal circumstances. So no, not all women get a complex from their boyfriends not [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse], she was having too much fun to care. Just for the record, drugs are bad kids!

Nothing personal, Stan, but having a high, incoherent dude prodding away at me for hours sounds positively nightmarish...ugh!

Well I don't know about that, but it gives me cramps, like period pain I think it's something to do with pheromones.

That doesn't sound normal. Are you on any sort of hormonal birth control? I've found that it really helped my period owwies, although, I've never had sex without bc.

Back when I was on Prozac, it sure wasn't. I was only good for one shot every other day. No matter how long we went at it, if I had popped the day before, I couldn't do it again. She loved it. I hated it. It was actually one of the reasons I stopped taking it. That and the runs, the sleeplessness, food tasting weird, and the complete inability for my eyes to adjust to sudden changes in light.

Sounds like me on Lexapro. Fortunately no partner was involved for me during that time.

Hope you're well, Izzy. And don't forget to feed Ewema!

I tried to fake it. Once. Why? Like Kramer said on seinfeld, "It was late, I was tired, and had enough already." She laughed her butt off at me and I was like, that isn't fair! If women can fake guys should be able to as well! Lol.

To answer the op, immoral? No. Not even close.

I think it's immoral to fake an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] for a man or a woman. If you can't get there it's best to be honest.

Hope you're well, too. It's been too long since I've seen ya around!

 

[stan1980]

Nothing personal, Stan, but having a high, incoherent dude prodding away at me for hours sounds positively nightmarish...ugh!

Obviously, there was a lot of variation going on, so I'm not just pumping away for 2 hours! And I'm only incoherent when I'm drunk I'll have you know!

 

[Ramona]

Obviously, there was a lot of variation going on, so I'm not just pumping away for 2 hours! And I'm only incoherent when I'm drunk I'll have you know!

Oh lord, the mental images you've brought about...

 

[stan1980]

Oh lord, the mental images you've brought about...

Pretty hot, huh?

 

[Ramona]

Pretty hot, huh?

*schnort*

Hey, I guess some people are into that sort of thing.

 

[cantata]

That doesn't sound normal. Are you on any sort of hormonal birth control? I've found that it really helped my period owwies, although, I've never had sex without bc.

I have only experienced this problem after sex when I've been on hormonal birth control, but then that's the only time that I've been in, er, direct contact with sperm, so that's probably not surprising.

It is normal, or at least, not unhealthy - I looked it up. Apparently some women respond to pheromones in sperm which cause their uterus to contract. Some people think it's because your body is trying to sort of suck up the sperm (eeeeew) to increase your chances of pregnancy. Either way, it can be quite uncomfortable

 

[RealDealNeverstop]

Nothing personal, Stan, but having a high, incoherent dude prodding away at me for hours sounds positively nightmarish...ugh!



That doesn't sound normal. Are you on any sort of hormonal birth control? I've found that it really helped my period owwies, although, I've never had sex without bc.



Sounds like me on Lexapro. Fortunately no partner was involved for me during that time.

Hope you're well, Izzy. And don't forget to feed Ewema!



I think it's immoral to fake an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] for a man or a woman. If you can't get there it's best to be honest.

Hope you're well, too. It's been too long since I've seen ya around!

I don't think it's immoral to fake an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] as long as it isn't relationship encompassing. Meaning, if the woman loves her man and wants to climax but can't for a reason un-related to him then I see it as a love gesture because even if she explains the inability has nothing to do with him, it could still have adverse effects. After I tried to fake it that one time I never tried again so it's kind of hard to address a guy faking.

 

[cantata]

I don't think it's immoral to fake an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] as long as it isn't relationship encompassing. Meaning, if the woman loves her man and wants to climax but can't for a reason un-related to him then I see it as a love gesture because even if she explains the inability has nothing to do with him, it could still have adverse effects. After I tried to fake it that one time I never tried again so it's kind of hard to address a guy faking.

I think repeated [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]-faking is a bad idea. If you require [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] to feel sexually satisfied, and if you are having to fake it, it's likely that you'll never achieve sexual fulfilment with that partner. Faking it prevents you from working with your partner to take steps to fix that problem.

 

[Autumnleaf]

I have only experienced this problem after sex when I've been on hormonal birth control, but then that's the only time that I've been in, er, direct contact with sperm, so that's probably not surprising.

It is normal, or at least, not unhealthy - I looked it up. Apparently some women respond to pheromones in sperm which cause their uterus to contract. Some people think it's because your body is trying to sort of suck up the sperm (eeeeew) to increase your chances of pregnancy. Either way, it can be quite uncomfortable

I thought that had to do with prostaglandins in sperm causing allergic reactions in some women.