I know I am a memebr to the one holy, catholic, and apostolic church, but do not adhere to Roman Catholicism predominately for the following reason.
When I first became called by God, I once was visiting Roman Catholic churches regularly, and joyfully participating in their services. There was a Bishop who was there celebrating the Mass (which I out of respect for their tradition willfully did not partake in). He denied the laity the blood of Christ. This was disturbing enough.
After the Mass, when we were alll gathered downstairs, he approached me and said I noticed you did not partake of the Eucharist are you not Catholic? And I told him, on the contrary I was, but not Roman Catholic. I asked "If I were serious and wanted to become a Roman Catholic what must I do" and he said "you must swear your aliegence to and become devoted to the Blessed Mother" (whom I respect greatly as being chosen among all women to be the mother of my Lord) and I turned and grasped his hand gently and said I can only swear alleigence to and stay devoted to the one she swore alleigence to and was devoted to...the Lord Jesus and no one else. He shuttered and said as he immediately pulled his hand away, "Then you cannot be Roman Catholic for this is the first requirement."
And since then I have never sought to even consider such a heresy ever again. Now perhaps he was the exception (I certainly hope so) for I have found and enjoy listenig to Father Ed McDonough and Thom Dilorenzo and other Christ centered, word centered Catholic teachers, but if Christ (who Mary always obeyed unto this day) is not the focus, then how can it be said to be the true way? I am sure that my holy Mary, mother of God, is appalled by this human exaltation. As she said in Cana...do as He says. Get it? Focus on Christ...there is no other mediator. Not do as I say but do as he says...
In Him we can come boldly before the throne of grace to obtain mercy in time of need. Now yes we can call on other saints to pray with and for us, we are one in Him (the communion of saints), and they can call on us, but we cannot pray to one another (not to Mary, or to Saint Jude, or to any one else). Only God has the power and authority to answer prayer.
Mary confessed just as I do, of her need for the savior...Now I love her, and she is a great model, but just a woman none the less. As far as personal holiness any of us would pale in comparison to Mary, but in really being Holy it is all of Him setting us apart and making us His own (which included her) to be uniquely used for His purpose for that is what it means to be Holy. Just my $.02...the Lord bless you and keep you...please reply if you feel so moved.
Paul