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MargoPego

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mrkguy75 said:
That's why I'm heading back over to the singles section. :)

I like hearing about strong marriages & people who are working hard at making them work. It shows they think it's all worth it, & that's great to me. As a single woman, it gives me hope to read people's thoughts on strong marriages & how committed they are to them. It also reminds me that some people are willing to go out of their way to make their other relationsips work as well.

I'm part of this section - thirties - & the singles section as well. Been more of a lurker lately than a poster, but I'm still here.

Keep up the good work, relationship people! :)
 
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MaraPetra

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I envy those who have been able to be blessed in their only marriage. There are a few of us who have not been so fortunate.

My first marriage ended spectacularly after nine turbulent, painful years. As an unbeliever, yoked to another unbeliever who classified his wife as a "piece of property", it was a relief to finally be able to breathe the air as a free woman. It almost felt strange not to be viewed as someone else's servant/cash cow/waitress/emotional abuse receptacle.

I've been delivered from some trule painful things.

I'm in my second marriage, and celebrated our fouth anniversary in April. It's totally different the second time around...A true testament both to God's forgiving nature, and His always-kept promise to His children! I"m looking forward to many more anniversaries with my spouse :clap:
 
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Niels

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MargoPego said:
I like hearing about strong marriages & people who are working hard at making them work. It shows they think it's all worth it, & that's great to me. As a single woman, it gives me hope to read people's thoughts on strong marriages & how committed they are to them. It also reminds me that some people are willing to go out of their way to make their other relationsips work as well.

I'm part of this section - thirties - & the singles section as well. Been more of a lurker lately than a poster, but I'm still here.

Keep up the good work, relationship people! :)
I've seen happy marriages... I guess I don't need much reminding that they can work.
 
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ambassador4Christ

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Married 12 years -- going on 13 this year. Because of Christ, our relationship grows deeper every day. We have our differences at times, but we respectfully share our thoughts and forgive each other. Many times our difficult moments have been turned into moments of laughter as a result of a clumsy action and/or words and phrases that come out comically incorrect. For the most part, we enjoy each other's company.
 
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