- Dec 21, 2018
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Again, priest is currently deployed and my godmother doesn’t quite understand. My parents are really no help.
I am a Christian, my husband is not. I became orthodox after my marriage. I was married by a woman preacher which I disagreed with at the time but I digress. I’ve been married since 2014 and we’re both 34.
I just. I don’t know if I can anymore.
He has zero intimacy with me and rather uses inappropriate contentography. I’ve told him how much it hurts me but he has zero empathy for my feelings. This has been going on for about 5 years. Barely any hugs or kisses. Nothing.
Before we married he told me that he wanted children biologically. He changed his mind and says adoption is the only option because he just doesn’t want me to leave. But he makes zero effort in researching any adoption information.
I feel alone. He’s a narcissist. All the signs and traits. I don’t even know what I am. I just feel like a servant and get paid in room and board.
I try to tell him so much but he ignores it or says it’s normal to watch that stuff or whatever. He then just ends up telling me it’s easier to do than actual intimacy. But I don’t feel loved. It’s not his health, he has had his testosterone and other things checked.
I feel trapped. I feel like it’s my fault. I don’t know what to do. I don’t even feel like he has ever really been a husband to me at all.
god bless
Again, priest is currently deployed and my godmother doesn’t quite understand. My parents are really no help.
I am a Christian, my husband is not. I became orthodox after my marriage. I was married by a woman preacher which I disagreed with at the time but I digress. I’ve been married since 2014 and we’re both 34.
I just. I don’t know if I can anymore.
He has zero intimacy with me and rather uses inappropriate contentography. I’ve told him how much it hurts me but he has zero empathy for my feelings. This has been going on for about 5 years. Barely any hugs or kisses. Nothing.
Before we married he told me that he wanted children biologically. He changed his mind and says adoption is the only option because he just doesn’t want me to leave. But he makes zero effort in researching any adoption information.
I feel alone. He’s a narcissist. All the signs and traits. I don’t even know what I am. I just feel like a servant and get paid in room and board.
I try to tell him so much but he ignores it or says it’s normal to watch that stuff or whatever. He then just ends up telling me it’s easier to do than actual intimacy. But I don’t feel loved. It’s not his health, he has had his testosterone and other things checked.
I feel trapped. I feel like it’s my fault. I don’t know what to do. I don’t even feel like he has ever really been a husband to me at all.
god bless