Marriage Issues

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I have been as intuitive to my wife's feelings our entire marriage as anyone can. Whenever I approach her with what is wrong she doesn't get to the bottom of it. Ever. So we've gone on in unresolved conflict for 18 years now. We married very young and even though we both believe in God we have had differing opinions on a lot of things when it comes to this. As a result she has closed herself off to me and is very stubborn. Also been to counseling a long time ago and that never went well. I'm still willing, but seems like she's not. I can't make her love me. I just have to come to terms that she doesn't want resolution. Difficult when I am still very much in love with her.

Seek God, and get counseling. With those there is hope. Believe me no one is without fault. You may honestly think most of this is her foult. But if she would feel safe and trust she will open up, and I am sure you will find her answer something you have thought was all settled long ago. Do things that are totally different to show her your love. It might be your last chance.