isnt that exactly what i said? the elders have our prayers .... im not seeing where the confusion is.
		
		
	 
The confusion comes from your interpretation that the prayers in the verse must be ALL the prayers that human have prayed to God. The prayers to God have been answered if it is part of His plan. If they are not part of His plan then those prayers have NOT been answered. The problem with your argument is fourfold.
First, regarding verse 8, can the prayers be  			authored by those who are already 
in heaven?  It doesn't  			say. There are different interpretations on exactly who the saints  			are because their identity can't be precisely demonstrated; after  			all, Revelation is a highly symbolic book.  Therefore, if it cannot be conclusively demonstrated who  			they are, then it cannot be conclusively demonstrated whose prayers they  			are, either.  Nevertheless, verse 9 says  "they sang a new  			song."  Who is the "they"?  It would have to be either  			the four living creatures and/or the 24 elders since "prayers of  			the saints" don't sing, "creatures" and "elders" do the singing.
 In verse 11-12 the angels, the creatures, and the  			elders who were all around the throne (which means they are in  			heaven) were praising God directly.  In verse 13 it says every  			created thing in heaven and earth was praising God, then the elders  			fell down and worshiped, v. 14.
Second, just because those in heaven can hear the  			prayers of those on Earth does not mean that is okay to pray to  			saints.  If they can hear the prayers of people it is because  			God grants that to them.  Think about it.  Can those in heaven  			hear the prayers uttered without speech?  Can they read minds?   			It is only God who knows all things and only God can grant anyone to  			hear or know what the prayers are of those who pray in silence.   			Let's not give the saints superhuman powers similar to omniscience.   			Nevertheless, all the text is saying is that they can hear the  			praise and worship of God.  It does not say that they are to  			be prayed to, nor does it imply praying to them is permitted.   			All it says is that they can hear the prayers and praise.   			There is nothing suggesting that those on Earth are requesting the  			prayers or intercession of those in heaven.  Nothing like this  			is in the text or even hinted at.
 Third, even if the case can be made that prayers are  			authored in heaven, and that those prayers are mingled with the  			prayers of those from Earth, it still does not justify those on  			Earth praying to those in heaven.  At best, all that we can say  			is that the prayers of those in heaven and the prayers of those on  			Earth are mingled.  To say any more than that is to read into  			the Scripture what is not there.
 Fourth, can the saints in heaven hear every prayer of  			every creature all the time?   We don't  			know what it is like so we conclude it's possible. It is an  			argument based on what do don't know, not what we do know.  This is a  			very very weak way of trying to present a position.    			The ones that belive this dogma must infer it from scripture and read into  			the text in order to support its error.
There  			is no biblical teaching at all that states we are to pray to  			those who once were alive on earth and are now in heaven.   			Revelation, the same book used  to justify this  			position says the following:
Revelation 9:10:
"And I fell at his feet  				to worship him. And he said to me, "Do not do that; I am a  				fellow servant of yours and your brethren who hold the testimony  				of Jesus; worship God. For the testimony of Jesus is the spirit  				of prophecy," 
 			 		 			John  			wants to bow the knee and worship the angel.  But the angel  			tells him not to do that because he is a fellow creature.  If  			the angel says that he is a fellow creature like John, and that John  			is not to bow to him, then neither should anyone else bow to  			an angel, or any creature so as to offer worship.  Worship  			includes prayer.  Therefore, no one should pray to any created  			thing.
Biblically, prayer is always offered to God, and is a  			form of worship.  All religions view prayer as an act of  			worship to their gods since they contain petitions, confession of  			sin, requests of intercession, etc., things which are received   			and answered by God, not by created things.  Also, prayer is not the  			same thing as talking to someone face-to-face.  Prayer is a  			humble petition to the Lord in and not to a friend who's in the same  			room with you or on the other end of the phone -- or in heaven.  Prayer is  			offered to God, never to any created thing.   Prayer should be offered  			only to God.