Manly man, and girly girl..

Saucy · Jul 18, 2015

Most guys I know aren't into girly-girls. I usually get in trouble around here when I say I don't care about make-up

Owlette · Jul 18, 2015

Miss Spaulding · Jul 18, 2015

Weird. Because most men I know and even men I've observed have all gone for the more girly types. Which has ultimately played into shaping my belief that I personally am not attractive or womanly enough. Not 'every' man I know or have observed has fallen into this category, but yes, the majority have. I must know a different class of people I guess. ?

Saucy · Jul 18, 2015

Well there's the stereotype I reckon. The cheerleaders get all the attention, etc. Maybe the guys YOU go for have gone for what you deem to the be the more attractive girls. On the flip side, you've had a lot of guys around here who consider you to be very attractive and you kinda shrug it off. Maybe because it's not the guys you want attraction from.

I guess keep heart that there are a lot of guys who go for your type. They just might not be your type haha.

MehGuy · Jul 18, 2015

Miss Spaulding said:
Weird. Because most men I know and even men I've observed have all gone for the more girly types. Which has ultimately played into shaping my belief that I personally am not attractive or womanly enough. Not 'every' man I know or have observed has fallen into this category, but yes, the majority have. I must know a different class of people I guess. ?

Eh, many like the girly vibe on the outside, manly vibe on the inside.

Miss Spaulding · Jul 18, 2015

Could be I guess. ...I think I just give off bad, intimidating vibes in person.

Toro · Jul 18, 2015

Owlette said:
Oh really, do you like women who aren't super girly or something? I don't know where I got the idea from, but it always seems like a lot of guys (not all) like girly girls, but maybe I'm totally wrong.

I like an "odd" type of woman. Feminine enough to be "soft", but not so much the girly girl type.

A woman that is far more comfortable in jeans and a Tshirt than a costly dress and heels.

Girly girl never was my type. Im from Texas. I cant be with a woman thats terrified of breaking a nail.(Not wanting to is fine, it stopping her from doing what needs to be done... nuh huh.)

Also, preferring to save rather than spend on something like pedicures and all. Once and awhile is fine, but Im certainly not drawn to a woman that wants to go every week or something.

I dont want a woman so non girly girl that she is "one of the guys" so much that you forget she is actually a woman.I want a woman that doesnt mind me picking her up and carrying her over a puddle but if I dont will walk through it. Not one that demands it or she wont move cause her shoes will get dirty.

Saucy · Jul 18, 2015

My impression of you is you'd give off the quiet, look at your feet kinda vibe. If you want to attract a guy, look him in the eyes.

Miss Spaulding · Jul 18, 2015

Yeah, easier said than done. But I know what you mean.

MehGuy · Jul 18, 2015

Miss Spaulding said:
Could be I guess. ...I think I just give off bad, intimidating vibes in person.

I think you're a cool person. And I can see guys getting along with you well.

I'm not sure how you look in real life. I guess I've always had the vibe you have a tom boy look. If you do, it might help a lot to develop a more feminine look.

I hope this post isn't condensing. Just trying to give some honest input.

Saucy · Jul 18, 2015

I'm telling you how to attract other men. I must've had a stroke

Owlette · Jul 18, 2015

Saucy · Jul 18, 2015

Owlette said:
Once again, we think alike, lol. That's what I've seem to observed from men too. I mean I'm not saying all men are like that either, but I've always felt like I have a mark against me because I'm not womanly enough.

We'll have to see a pic to judge that for ourselves. hehehe

Hawthorne · Jul 18, 2015

Any woman can be girly and just plain gorgeous if she has long hair and wears a dress. Heavens above, there are fewer things that have the potential to make me swoon.

But, as far as that goes, I'm more attracted to an intellectually keen woman than someone whose hobby is cosmetics. I reckon I could say the mind beautifies the body in my estimation. It's not to say I'm blind to attractive women who ply the art of cosmetics, but that's not the first thing I look for, nor does it prove to be a lasting attraction.

Owlette · Jul 18, 2015

Hawthorne · Jul 18, 2015

Miss Spaulding said:
Which has ultimately played into shaping my belief that I personally am not attractive or womanly enough.

No, you're just too crunchy.

Toro · Jul 18, 2015

Owlette said:
Well that's good to know too. That pretty much describes me, as far as those traits. I'm definitely not a "one of the guys" type, but I'm not demanding at all, and I break nails all the time and don't care.

You're a woman without all the flash you say?

If you arent careful, I may find myself pulling for team Bullette after all.

Owlette · Jul 18, 2015

Toro · Jul 18, 2015

Saucy said:
We'll have to see a pic to judge that for ourselves. hehehe

Nice to see I aint the only one in a never ending quest.

She thinks its hard to see the snow owls and all....... she should try searching for an Owly on CF.

Even if you see a picture of an Owly's hand or eye you are lucky.

Owlette · Jul 18, 2015

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