Im almost afraid to say what I think but when a man talks to one other man about something and its a seriose conversation you can get his true opinion on it. Once you put that same conversation in a social setting with a group of men it turns into something completely different. Ive heard some of the worse things ever in my life come out of people mouths in a group.
Have you considered the culture where your at. In some places some people dont think its as big a deal to have a girl on the side. Find you a good christian friend where you work at and talk about family stuff or stuff that matters. Some good advise I once heard was the badge can get you plenty of women and one woman can get you plenty of trouble.
That kind of job changes you. Try not to let what you do dictate who you are. Before all things try to be a good christian, good husband, good father and a lawman second to that.
Have you considered the culture where your at. In some places some people dont think its as big a deal to have a girl on the side. Find you a good christian friend where you work at and talk about family stuff or stuff that matters. Some good advise I once heard was the badge can get you plenty of women and one woman can get you plenty of trouble.
That kind of job changes you. Try not to let what you do dictate who you are. Before all things try to be a good christian, good husband, good father and a lawman second to that.
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