lost and dying

[Faithful83]

Before I say what I'd like to say, you're 13, right? Depending on your state, I believe that once you're 12 or older, you have a fairly substantial say on where you end up as far as the courts are concerned. I'm sure that varies from state to state but I think once you're 12 you at least have some input legally.

You're mom, no offense intended, sounds very childish. I'm not too sure about your dad but it sounds like too kids fighting over a teddy bear. An unlike a teddy bear, you have feelings that are being messed with.

Your mother says don't get in the middle of it, yet she yells at you for being 30 minutes late, therefore PUTTING you in the middle. She is contradicting herself.

One poster said that if you believe God's word, you should honor your parents, but this isn't a one-way street here. Yes honor and respect them, but if they believe God's word they shouldn't be exasperating you. I think it would be perfectly acceptable to respectfully let them know that you're downright exasperated!

Sorry to hear about this...

 

[Fire Of Zion]

sadly it is only my mom who is doing all this...my dad is only doing what he is doing because he knows i want to live with him so he's trying to fight for me...i guess i could put it like trying to give the teddybear a mouth and strength.

don't get me wrong, i love my mom and she is a wonderful christian and person she just needs a lil bit of a....whats the word? mmmmm wake up call? she doesn't really listen to me ENTIRELY ((although she claims shes listening)) and with some things shes saying to me, it makes her sound like she is the only good person in this and that everyone one else is bad and wrong and that she is the only one who can hear from God! this is frustrating me soooo much!!

i actually want school to start so much so i can hang with my friends and prolly another reason is to get out of my house. the enviroment and everything is nice but i feel tied down! like a bird that is kept by having its leg tied to a chair so it cant move, tho the owner moves the chair so claim that it is getting plenty of room and air!