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A dear friend of mine, the cantor at St. Ann parish in Harrisburg PA, has left the Byzantine Catholic Church for Holy Orthodoxy. He told me this was a long time coming (over 20 years of thought and wrestling with thoughts) and that he was just not getting what he needed out of the Catholic faith.

I am beginning to understand.....
 
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Hi my dear friend!!

I wish you with my heart to become an Eastern Orthodox Christian too!

I was born in Protestantism and on 2001 (20 years old) I became Eastern Orthodox Christian too.

Maybe these sites helps you:

Simply Orthodox

Roman Catholics met Orthodoxy

America of my heart

Ex 2x2 Letters from Greece

 
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I didn't come from Catholicism but I understand. I just was not getting what I needed, and hadn't been getting it for some years. So I went looking, thank God.

Your friend didn't have so far to travel though, at least. But I do understand there are particular problems with leaving Catholicism.

We are here to help in any way we can, or to listen. God be with you!
 
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I converted from Methodism because I couldn't handle a choice between praise and worship music on the one hand, and a heretical liberal minister on the other. Best decision I ever made.
 
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Saw "Going My Way" in the fourth grade and began questioning Catholicism after wondering why priests don't dress like priests anymore. I was chrismated at sixteen after finally being fed up with how flaming liberal one parish could be vs a mostly moderate one I was raised in.
 
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glory to God!
 
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Some things take time and it has often been the case that others have come from the Eastern Catholic tradition into Orthodoxy. Of course, you also have cases of others going back into Eastern Catholicism and others who grew up Cradle Orthodox going into Eastern Catholicism. In some of the older discussions, I've shared before on how I grew up going to Catholic Churches...more so within the Black community (here and here/here, here, here, and here and here). But What I experienced in the Catholic school I attended and what my sister/mother both experienced (as Afro-Hispanics) is radically different than what I saw lived out in differing Catholic Churches when there did not seem to be a lot of emphasis on the community/social justice and the poor......or a dynamic of not getting satisfied within Catholicism with regards to learning on how to be devout/love your neighbors.



But as I got older, I began to see some of the ways that Orthodoxy seemed more historically consistent. My journey didn't entail me looking back on all things Catholic and saying it was pointless since the Catholic Church came through for my mother (When she was single raising me) and I attended Catholic Elementary schools in lower-income areas while also having Catholic family members who were always devout. I simply wanted to be more intellectually consistent with the facts as I studied them.

One of my family friends has a daughter who is engaged to a Byzantine Catholic and the discussions between that man and the girl's father (who is Eastern Orthodox) have always been fruitful since the father grew up Catholic (Roman Catholic) and understands why others would either go from Roman Catholicism into Byzantine Catholicism or come into Orthodoxy from Eastern Catholicism. You always learn amazing things along the journey...and for my friend's daughter, he's glad she and him can have good discussions with her fiance and still respect each other.

And a lot of Byzantine Catholics have already said the same as Orthodox anyhow. In example, as it is, The late Melkite Catholic theologian Fr. Joseph Raya argues in his book The Face of God that the Primacy of Peter never meant for Orthodox to be seen as a rejection of the primacy of St. Peter or even papal primacy as much as a simple rejection of medieval reinterpretation of papal prerogatives against the secular German emperors. Fr. Joseph Raya has always been someone I've greatly admired/respected and when he noted what he did, it caused a lot of controversy in the Catholic world.
And more on Joseph Raya has been shared before (as well as some of my experiences as well in Catholicism), as seen here:




Nice Church - A tad smallish as a parish community (eg the one guy in a black coat), but a great clerical presence and beautiful iconography...

Arsenios




And with regards to others who come out of the Catholic Faith into Orthodoxy, I am glad knowing it doesn't automatically entail a dismissal for all things beautiful that they grew up with as Catholics.

In example, you have Orthodox parishes that actually venerate Catholic saints. Specifically, I'm reminded of how the monastery at New Skete actually venerates him ...the Monastic Communities of New Skete. But of course, they are unique since they started out as Byzantine Catholic Franciscans and they are a Stavropegial Monastery directly under the omophor of the Metropolitan of the OCA.
It is the case that they highly celebrate St. Francis of Assisi ( be it with his passion for creation/wildlife and the ways he communed with God's creation or the little known encounter between St. Francis of Assisi and Sultan Malik al-Kamil of Egypt during the Crusades and the ways he evangelized) as he is liturgically commerated on his Feast of Oct 4, with Vigil rank. For more, one can go here or here (http://myemail.constantcontact.com/...imals.html?soid=1104983459770&aid=hhYB13iaLEA ).







And of course, he isn't a saint because the Roman Catholic Communion is not a part of the Eastern Orthodox Church, but he's still respected/honored. Although he is a "Post-Schism" saint, we have to be consistent in remembering that St. Isaac of Syria is regarded as a Saint and venerated within Holy Orthodoxy, even though he is a "post-schism" saint, being from the Assyrian Church of the East (Nestorian). H St. Seraphim of Sarov is actually one of the saints that closely parallels St.Francis - and as it concerns mysticism, there are differing ways of approaching. As another wisely noted about him:


That said, as said before, Byzantine Catholicism is indeed very complex in its development and it's not a surprise to see why many make the jump into Orthodoxy - some of them more easily than others. And others who take their time doing so do not do so lightly, even though many have said they were surprised coming into Orthodoxy and realizing it was not that radical of a jump once they made it. I have been blessed by others as well who looked back and discovered others in the Byzantine Catholic world who were cheering on and excited for those going into Orthodoxy since we're all brothers/sisters in Christ and lift each other up. The Byzantine world is very diverse and people come into it/out of it from all kinds of trajectories so who knows where your friend will be further in his development in the future. I am glad for his progression and wish him the best and blessings to all the things he'll learn as time goes on

Shalom.
 
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This resonates with me. I was young when I first went to Mexico, where my grandmother was from, and I couldn't help but notice there even at around age 12 how different it was from the experiences I had had in my mother's Presbyterian (white) church. As a Latina girlfriend of mine once put it "Catholicism in Mexico makes you want to be Catholic!" (this was years and years before the sex abuse scandals, when people were generally less cynical about it; Lord have mercy). And yet when I went to my local Catholic church, I was confused by how stiff and kind of cold the white people were. Then I went to the same church's Latino mass (they had separate masses since the Anglo priest couldn't speak Spanish) and realized that it was totally a cultural thing in how they approach Catholicism. I hadn't realized that, since my grandmother was the only practicing Catholic in my family when I was a kid and she was already Hispanic, so I had never seen any other way of practicing. I was kind of disappointed, honestly. There was not a lot of love or caring expressed from or between the families in the Anglo/white mass, who seemed to go there more because they were known as 'Catholic families' rather than actually wanting to form a community (I'm 100% sure that this is not fair, but that's how it seemed, particularly in comparison to the Hispanic Catholic community I had known and grown up alongside). It took a few years before I found a place in the RCC that wasn't really like that, probably because they didn't have a very sharp cultural divide between this or that part of the church as there had been in my hometown. (Since I was living in Oregon by that point, a very white state, going to mass was one of the only places you could go where you were practically guaranteed to meet Africans, African Americans, Hispanic people, Asians, Arabs, etc. all under one roof. For whatever else can be said about the Roman Catholic Church, that was a wonderful experience that I will always remember fondly.)

I suppose such things could be said of any parish, Catholic or not, but it was still an eye-opening experience.
 
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