doubtingmerle said:
Could it be that when people claim wonderful benefits from being a Christian, they are actually experiencing the wonderful benefits of being an active member of a caring group?
doubtingmerle: Yes.
doubtingmerle said:
Could they have experienced the same things if they became an active member of a very different community that had a different religion?
Probably so. And? Look, I know exactly what you're talking about. I've been a Christian for 22+ years and I've been in church settings, conferences, retreats, etc., etc. hundreds of times. Not lately, though. In fact, if I had to give an educated guess, then I'd guess that I've only stepped foot in one of those types of settings about 10 to 12 times in the last 10 years and some of those "foot steppings" were for either weddings or funerals. One of the reasons that I stopped going to church (not the main reason...not even close) is because I found the churches that I attended or visited to basically be "glorified" social clubs. You know, the whole "family" got together, shared a few light-hearted things (I was EXTREMELY hard-pressed to find anyone who wanted to talk about CHRIST...I repeatedly got the strangest looks whenever I tried to talk about HIM), sat attentively as "granpa" (the pastor who was only telling "nice ear-tickling stories") got up and did his thing and then all went out to the diner for some good grub. Wash. Rinse. Repeat. Sound about right? That was my experience...time and time and time and time again over about a 12 year timespan. Don't miss it in the least. However, I'm still TOTALLY DEVOTED TO JESUS CHRIST. How is this possible, apart from the aforementioned "community" (I'm all for church, by the way, if there's one that's even remotely close to the type of church that I read about in scripture or at least attempting to be such)? Easy. Biblical Christianity is all about KNOWING GOD/CHRIST. You know, all of those marriage type analogies where "the two (God and man) become one". Jesus said it best:
"And this is life eternal, that they might know thee the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent." (John 17:3)
This is BOTH Christianity and eternal life. Knowing God. Knowing Christ. Being truly born again from above and indwelt by the Holy Spirit.
This, sad to say, is what you apparently missed. Your observations of "community" and how it can positively affect someone APART FROM GOD are correct, as far as I'm concerned. However, such "community" could also be available WITH GOD...if you can find some Christians and not the aforementioned "socialites". Anyhow, whereas some of your observations apparently led you to leave what you perceived to be "Christianity", my observations merely led me out of the social network called "the church" (Again, I don't believe that church is supposed to be this way, only that it ofttimes is). Yes, this observation and other things of even more grave concern "forced" me to start preaching on the streets. Anyhow, I still find fellowship with Christians who aren't playing games from time to time. Beyond that, I find fellowship with CHRIST HIMSELF DAILY. This, my dear friend, I'll NEVER walk away from.
Take care.