I understand this stance whole heartedly. When first coming to understand His sovereignty and our will I asked "How can a person be a free and responsible child of God if their actions have been predestined from eternity?" If we are convinced of the existence of God and of Him having the Power by which all things exist and are controlled, we are forced to figure out where the finite human will can find true and free expression under the authority of an Infinite Ruler. The answer is simple in that the same God who has ordained all events has also ordained human liberty.
Man are not robots, as many claim we state. In the Divine plan, which is infinite in variety and complexity, which reaches from everlasting to everlasting, and which includes the billions of free wills who act under His watchful eye, God has ordained that human beings shall keep this liberty under His sovereignty. The Scripture writers themselves did not hesitate to affirm the absolute sway of God over the thoughts and intents of the heart, and they felt no embarrassment to include the acts of their free agency within His all-embracing plan.
Think of God like the sole foreman/head of a work site. He develops the plan of how a building will turn out. He hires the carpenters, masons, plumbers, electricians, etc. to do the work. They're not forced to do the work, but the foreman offers the necessary encouragement to do so so the men work freely and gladly. His will is primary and theirs are secondary in the construction of the building. The building will end up as the foreman intended and planned for, and the workers doing the roles they were hired for. He directs the actions without infringing upon the freedoms or responsibilities of the individidual.
Men freely act, according to His plan, unconsciously fulfilling Divine prophecy. There are many Biblical examples of this, one I find the best is Peter's denial of Jesus after He told Him specifically what He was going to do.