We did not speak about the cross, but about creation.
I don't believe in moral relativism. The cross is just as good an example of divine values as any.
Ant if I'm not fooled by biased memory, the authors of the NT give more stress on the shame of the cross than of the suffering
In those old times folks were rather acquainted to suffering, so the willingness to die a shameful, yet even accursed death was more important to them as the suffering.
Shame involves suffering.
1.Kor 13:3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
According to your definition of merit, the »hardship« of the body counts more than the love. Paul says otherwise. Do you really think that Christ in the judgement seat will be on your side, and will not join Paul?
When Paul says "have not love" it's not a meritorious act. Love and selfishness are opposites. My definition of merit is for righteous causes.
Is this a comment to my example of the two sons? This is an outcome of some knowledge about differences between ancient and modern thinking. The upper class despised the poor ones because they had to work. Later, this developed into the aristocratic way of thinking …
You're forcing to me picture this kind of fatherhood.
"You son, of high IQ (but lazy), I'm sooooooo proud of you. Great job. Much praise for your accomplishments"
"Dad, are you proud of me too?"
"No. I don't care how much you labored/suffered, I can't be proud of you, and I can't praise you, because you're a stupid numbskull."
Yes, that would make you a complete jerk.
There are different measures of merit. One is that which Christ will use, another is yours, yet another the measure in antiquity.
I'll stick with Christ's measure. If you prefer to follow the example of jerks, that's on you.
Thou I don't claim to fully know the standard by which we shall be judged, I can't see a biblical proof that your »standard« is the same as Christ's measure. So do not snear at me, bur show to me where the Bible teaches what you say.
....(1) The Bible is useless/hopeless if God's definition of the virtues is different than ours. The virtues are things like love, honesty, merit, patience, longsuffering, gentleness, etc.
....(2) The Bible says that God is
worthy of praise - He
merits our praise. And my definition of merit is the only viable one for the non-jerk. Does God merit praise for creation? Yes. Therefore it must have involved labor/suffering.
...(3) Again, is God a hypocrite? He wants praise for effortless traits while evaluating us on our efforts? The bible says that a man who does not work shall not eat. I think that's clear enough regarding how He feels about human labor. Other verses:
......"Six days you shall labor, and do all your work,:
.......See 2Thes 3:6-9
.......See Heb 6:10-12
From a logical standpoint, I'm not insisting that He had to suffer
during creation. It would be enough if He suffered
before creation, to acquire the skills necessary. Scripture is pretty clear, however, that He actually suffered during creation (can't recall if I demonstrated that part).
The Bible praises God for what He has done, no matter whether it was effortless or whether it was hard labor.
I don't believe it does. Again, the question is whether He
earlier labored to acquire those skills. Nowadays many of those feats are effortless, but not so in the beginning. God would be a jerk if Scripture proclaims Him worthy of praise for effortless feats.
Do you believe in a God who might have failed in His plan out of exhaustion or so?
Absolutely. I believe in a finite God who had to face the possibility of failure in his effort to become holy. In my theodicy, He has made Himself irreversibly holy wherefore failure is no longer a possibility.
Emotional exhaustion was a much greater threat than physical exhaustion, in my view. Being physically exhausted doesn't necessarily make you unholy, probably just means you need rest. Ultimately it depends on how you define "holy". For me the term amounts to "competent ruler". So yes, by my definition of "holy", He would have failed to have attained to holiness if rulership were a job too physically demanding for Him.