Hey guys. I'm 20 years old, got saved when I was 14. Ever since I received Jesus into my life, I continually sought godliness but made a TON of mistakes. I've been in a few sexual relationships in the past several years and I always repented of them and turned away eventually. I've also been involved in a lot of the party lifestyle. A little over a year ago, there was an unrelated event that took place in my life and caused to to walk very far away from God. I began living the dirty life that I had lived before, but this time I was unrepentant. I started drinking more than I ever have, smoking weed, etc.
I got into a relationship with a man who was not a Christian and we started having sex of course. Here's the thing: I love him with all of my heart and I'm having a hard time understanding why having sex with the person you're going to marry is wrong. We don't have sex for personal satisfaction like most couples do outside of marriage. We do it because it's the ultimate act of love and we want to show that to each other. So I'm not sure what to do about this.
Here is my second problem: For as long as I can remember, I've been attracted to girls. I've never had a desire to be in a relationship with a girl, but if I see a hot girl I can't help but think about her. I do have sexual fantasies about them but I'm not a lesbian. I've described it as wanting to make them feel good because they deserve it. That's how I feel. Anyway. My boyfriend thinks it's really hot that I'm attracted to girls and so we've began acting this out in our sex life. My question is, is this wrong? I would never be in a relationship with a girl or fall in love with a girl or anything, I just think they're hot and want them. It scares me a little bit because I don't know if what I'm feeling is wrong, but I also feel a little like I don't care if it's wrong. :/ I can't stop enjoying it...
Help??
I got into a relationship with a man who was not a Christian and we started having sex of course. Here's the thing: I love him with all of my heart and I'm having a hard time understanding why having sex with the person you're going to marry is wrong. We don't have sex for personal satisfaction like most couples do outside of marriage. We do it because it's the ultimate act of love and we want to show that to each other. So I'm not sure what to do about this.
Here is my second problem: For as long as I can remember, I've been attracted to girls. I've never had a desire to be in a relationship with a girl, but if I see a hot girl I can't help but think about her. I do have sexual fantasies about them but I'm not a lesbian. I've described it as wanting to make them feel good because they deserve it. That's how I feel. Anyway. My boyfriend thinks it's really hot that I'm attracted to girls and so we've began acting this out in our sex life. My question is, is this wrong? I would never be in a relationship with a girl or fall in love with a girl or anything, I just think they're hot and want them. It scares me a little bit because I don't know if what I'm feeling is wrong, but I also feel a little like I don't care if it's wrong. :/ I can't stop enjoying it...
Help??
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