I do congratulate everyone for tastily discussing a difficult subject without being crude (apart from one).
Saved Girl long may you enjoy what you do in the privacy of the bedroom between you and your loved one. That is your business and nobody elses.
Mehguy I agree that the distasteful words Sadism and Masochism do not describe at all what happens in the bedroom where love reigns and needs are met. Personally I hate the word bdsm. They are horrific words when you really study them. The word bondage is from the pit. We are told to stand fast in the liberty and not be entangled again in the yoke of bondage. If couples want to tie each other up in a mutually acceptable way for sexual reasons that is something else. I don't think we should be lumped in the bdsm basket simply through lack of adequate expression. The only sexual basket we need be in is our own marriages even though some activities will not be vanilla so to speak.
As for a third person in the bedroom what has that got to do with the subject? Nothing at all. Aren't we talking about christian marriage here? That surely is anathema to any christian marriage and even most non christian marriages.
Saved Girl long may you enjoy what you do in the privacy of the bedroom between you and your loved one. That is your business and nobody elses.
Mehguy I agree that the distasteful words Sadism and Masochism do not describe at all what happens in the bedroom where love reigns and needs are met. Personally I hate the word bdsm. They are horrific words when you really study them. The word bondage is from the pit. We are told to stand fast in the liberty and not be entangled again in the yoke of bondage. If couples want to tie each other up in a mutually acceptable way for sexual reasons that is something else. I don't think we should be lumped in the bdsm basket simply through lack of adequate expression. The only sexual basket we need be in is our own marriages even though some activities will not be vanilla so to speak.
As for a third person in the bedroom what has that got to do with the subject? Nothing at all. Aren't we talking about christian marriage here? That surely is anathema to any christian marriage and even most non christian marriages.
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