Mling
Knight of the Woeful Countenance (in training)
- Jun 19, 2006
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Out of curiosity: Is there a reason you distinguish between a friend and others?
I am asking because I suspect that such distinctions are the underlying cause for every use of violence, and that in the end it always comes down to "because I prefer this person to live over that person to live". Not that I necessarily criticize this (in fact, I am struggling with finding a rational approach in this question myself), but I think it´s worth pointing out that no matter how reasonable we succeed in making our arguments sound - they are still nothing but rationalizations of our preferences.
It isn't wholly rational on my part, either. I would like to think that I would die to save the life of pretty much anybody, but I don't know about that. I have a hard time imagining myself just sitting by and watching somebody die, though, if I could see a way to help them.
The flip side is, I would also like to think that I would be careful enough to solve any violent problem without adding to the violence, but I know myself to well. I am ridiculously protective of my friends. I don't know if I would deliberately set out to kill somebody who was holding a knife to my friend's throat, but I think it's safe to say that I would attack him/her without putting any effort into not killing them, and the thought doesn't make me squeamish.
In my head, I understand that this just adds to the overall violence of the world, and contradicts a lot of other things that I believe. I am consciously trying to train myself to feel it and act accordingly. But I know myself, and I know what happens to me when I fly into mother-bear mode.
I won't get into all the issues around "does it have an effect," but to say I should have clarified it a bit. Of course, killing a soldier, or an unarmed village, has an effect. I was thinking, specificially, about whether it has an effect that addresses the issues that prompted the war in the first place. Follow that with, could that issue have been addressed in other ways, if not for the stubburnness of the countries' leaders?
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