exitstageright
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- Jun 18, 2011
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Do you think women owe you something for being a "good Christian man"?
Attraction is attraction. You don't pick who you are attracted to. Quit having temper-tantrum because every woman you ask out doesn't fall madly in love with you. They are honest enough not to lead you on and waste your time.
No,no woman owes me anything. I thought that having a good christian woman,who loves me,is my reward for being good. Let us face it.None of us would be a christian if there was no heaven/or reward when we are saved.Why should we be good?The point I was trying to make is that if I am the kind of man that women say that they want,and I meet those qualifications,then why am I not being "picked"?
For example you are a nurse.I would think that you are a very good nurse.But,if you were told,while looking for work,that you are a very,very good nurse,and are qualified for a nursing job,and you were not hired,would not that hurt your feelings?
Some women do lead me on,while not being honest with me up front. I am not having a temper-tantrum. I am just expressing myself in a socially responsible,and an acceptable way. What I am supposed to do? Am I supposed to go out and get drunk? Should I smoke some weed and just forget about it?
Yes.I am sure that I do not belong to some "private little club". Many men have to put up with this asinine non sense,also. I just know how to express my frustration without being violent.
By the way, I do pick whom I am attracted to.However,my attraction for someone does not always come on "first sight'". As I have said before,I just seem to only attract "taken women". Just as my brother once told me.This Deacon's wife told him,"W.... if I was not married,I would be ALL over you!!" When I was 59,I heard, for the first time,a woman tell me that she was sexually attracted to me. Yes,she is married. If I had been told that when i was 19,I would had been confident as a young man. Women are attracted to confident men.
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