Just got a phone call need some advise

[pray_for_us_all]

im suspicious of the drugs because of who she is associating with, and she looks really bad and has lost alot of weight and is paranoid she keeps telling people i have someone following her and i dont.

please keep in prayer with me, come in to aggreement with me to find favor tomorrow, if god is for you who can be againist you.

thanks danny

 

[StillLearning101]

Sounds to me like that, but the only actual way you know if proof.

I am praying, but you have to find out for sure. Honestly, for the sake of your children, find out. Your children are suffering right now.
I am praying for them also.

 

[kayd1966]

Praise the Lord that you got to see the boys and they got to spend some time with you! and Praise the Lord that He is providing you with council!

I'm sorry that your wife doesn't seem willing to make things right, I wish it were different.

Right now you need to focus on what is best for the children...hearing that they were dirty and have lice and the bottles were dirty gets me concerned. Check with your lawyers to see if there is some way of getting the boys' residence checked out, my brother's wife was forced to show that she was providing a proper place for the children to live and then it was checked out by the local social services worker.

Please discuss the the possibility of you getting the children with your lawyers, go over all the steps you need to take to prove that you can provide a better home for them. You need to do your best to protect the boys and you need to make sure that the lawyers understand that you really need to do this.

I will continue to pray for you and for your boys.

 

[pray_for_us_all]

went to court this morning for the family stability meeting it was supposed to be just the judge me and her and counsil, and she didnt show this was the day i was looking forward to this is the day she had to talk and give account for what she said, it had snowed a little last night but his is oklahoma it snowed and inch she said she was sick, who know's im still not sure where she is keeping them, i think i know and if it is where i think it is the house doesnt even have running water. i told the judge that, she said we needed proof to get them today, she gave me a temporary custody hearing for the 19th so be in prayer with me about that, hopefully she will come to herself and come home all of my non christian friends tell me she is not coming back but and to get over it but im not going to quit praying for her until god tells me to. most people dont understand i still love her i want the whole family back. who knows (besides god) maybe the words i told her yesterday are working on her (i told her i love her and i forgive her) i planted that seed there i know god has to grow that seed. i am supposed to get to see the boys for 3 hours tonight then i heard earlier she didnt think she could bring them. just keep in prayer with me and my family

 

[llghoney]

I have to give you kudos for being strong & keeping the faith!!! I am glad to hear you are going to get to see your boys. I do not know how though the courts will allow children to be in a place that is not livable. But like the court said they have to have proof. Are the visits supervise by a social worker or someone besides family?

Still praying for you & your family!

 

[pray_for_us_all]

no she agreed to drop them off at my sister's house, she still goes over there thats who baby sits for her, my sister has been keeping records on how the boys look when they get there my wife doesnt know that.
hopefully i get to see them tonight but she told my sister earlier she didnt think she was going to do it today.

im just standing on gods word. he said he will never leave me or forsake me and that no weapon formed againist me shall prosper.

i stood up last night during the testimony part and thanked god for my family believing that they will return.

just keep us in prayer ill keep everyone updated and will be rejoicing and shouting to god when my family returns.

 

[kayd1966]

I'm praying for you...did you get to see the boys tonight?

I'm so glad to hear that your sister is keeping track of how they look...that is so important. And I glad to hear that you are leaning on the Lord...I'll be praying that you continue to lean on Him and to find peace in Him.

 

[pray_for_us_all]

yes she brought them to my sisters house, i got to see them for a couple hours, both of the boys are sick and she has'nt taken them to the doctor, i told my sister to tell her to take them today or i would, she told her i couldnt but my sister told her yes i could. my sister told her that we needed to sit down and talk but she said we weren't suppose to because of the protection order. i've felt for a while that if we could sit and talk that would be a big step. alot of people that have prayed with me about it. have told me the same thing they felt that if we could sit it talk it would be ok. i just need god to arrange that, because she doesnt seem willing right now.

just keep us in your prayers

danny

 

[pray_for_us_all]

ok friday my wife took the kids to the hospital and the doctor called dhs on her i got a call at work that dhs wanted to talk to me. the kids were dirty and smelled bad and she had fallen asleep in the lobby at the doctors. and the 2 year old managed to get outside. but still they didnt take the kids i tried to get them to he said he couldnt just yet but if any thing else happened they would. i got a custody hearing a week from today, pray that the judge will see the truth. and pray that they dont run with the kids before then. and to keep a hedge about the boys to protect them. i know the 2 year old has lost about 5 lbs since he has been gone they feed him at the hospital because he was hungry. i'm severly concerned that she has gotten involved in drugs seeing the way of behavior has changed and the people that she is associating with.

on a brighter side i had the opportunity to lead a man to christ.
so i know their was rejoicing in heaven yesterday.

even though all this is coming againist me, im letting jesus fight my battles for me i took the puppet team to a nursing home saturday then did a jail ministry yesterday, i can do all things through christ which strenghtens me.

just keep praying with us over this situation most people dont understand why i still love her and would take her back but they dont understand true forgiveness just like i was forgiven for everything i ever done. but i have to get the boys safe first.

please keep us in prayers

 

[3girls2dogs]

I have been reading this thread, and my heart just breaks for you and your children.

I will be praying that the judge can see the truth in front of him and make a decision in the best interest of your children.

 

[llghoney]

I am truly touched by your strength. It is truly awesome the power of the Lord.

I will continue to keep you & your family in my prayers.

And the truth will prevail!

Take care
Love in Christ

 

[pray_for_us_all]

ok the boys are safe, dhs picked them up yesterday because she didnt follow what they had told her to do and she had them in bad living conditions plus they were filithy again. they are safe with my sister right now i have a temporary custody hearing monday. so pray with me about that the the truth comes out and i get to keep the boys in a christian home.
i know you have all been praying with me and i appreciate that. also pray with me for my wife i dont know what has ahold of her but she is not herself she hasnt even went or called to check on the boys. but i know what ever it is that is wrong with her that she can be delivered from it through jesus christ. just pray that she will open her eyes and see the light

prayer makes a difference

thanks danny

 

[llghoney]

 

[kayd1966]

praying Danny...I haven't been around lately but I have been praying.

I'm so glad and praising the Lord that the boys are safe. I'll be praying like crazy on Monday!

 

[cjba]

I am amazed at your strength. May God be with you during this season of your life. I pray that you are awarded custody of your children and that God will touch your wife's heart.

God Bless

 

[pray_for_us_all]

thanks i know god has heard every prayer that has been prayed, my wife went by to see the boys yesterday. she told my sister that her and jeff (the guy she left for) were out looking for an apartment. they were going to be moved by monday so they could get the boys back i dont see it. but that hurt me deeply the woman i love that i took an oath before god to love for the rest of our lives is out looking for an apartment with another man barely 2 weeks after she left. i know they have been living together since she left but still that really hurt deep for some reason. her family was behind me now they have wavered on that they are leaning her way or neutral. ever since DHS took the boys from her they think its my fault for some reason. i tried to tell them the doctor called DHS no me. but that upset me and i was worrying about it and then i started praying and i felt like god told me "hey i'm still in charge here" i know he has control of the whole situation i found out yesterday that her and him both had to take a drug test the night they went to the police station to meet DHS. thats been everyone's guess so far the way she completely changed just in a week or less. i found it hard to pray for her last night but i still did. i dont believe god has told me to give up praying for her i believe that was just me being aggravated. so pray with us that i can get the boys and bring them up in a christian home. pray to give me strength to make it through this. i know i can do all things through jesus christ who strengthens me. just let the truth come out and open that judges eyes to not be decieved by the father of lies satan.

paul said in ephesians having done all, to stand - stand therefore
i feel i've done all I can, the battles not mine any more it's the lords he is my strength and he is my provider and he will see me through this trial.


THANK YOU JESUS

just keep lifting this up with me unto the lord
he is worthy of all praise


thanks danny

 

[3girls2dogs]

I must say that your faith is inspiring. You are example to follow on how to believe when times are tough. I am praying for you and your boys, and while I know that the truth will come out in the end, because I have faith in God as well, I know it doesn't stop it from hurting. I can tell that you still love your wife and I am sure it pains you to see her treat your vows so frivolously. I pray not only for the safety of your boys, but for peace and happiness in your future.

 

[pray_for_us_all]

ok monday morning at 11:00 am oklahoma time is the next court date, be in prayer with me at that time that i will get custody of the boys i cant see them giving them back to her since dhs has already taken them from her once but you never know im just believing that i will find favor that day. also keep in prayer for me and her also i need strength and she needs help although im not sure what the situation actually is that she is stuck in. but what ever it is its completely changed her for the worse.

i can do all things throught jesus christ who strengthens me

 

[pray_for_us_all]

ok went to court this morning, all my witnesses were there, i was ready to roll but she got it postponed because she doesnt have an attorney yet. and they gave her until feb. 10th to get an attorney. so ill be in prayer about it the boys are to stay with my sister until then. so i know that they are safe. just keep un in your prayers until then. i dont understand what happens but god does and this delay happened for a reason. no matter what god is still in control.

thanks danny

 

[cjba]

I'm praying for you and your family.