Just got a phone call need some advise

[kayd1966]

still praying and again...SO GLAD...that the boys are where you know they are safe, cared for and loved...And where you can see them for Christmas. This delay is in the Lord's hands and in His plan.

Keep leaning on the Lord Danny and please continue to keep us updated.

 

[StillLearning101]

Any more updates danny?

 

[llghoney]

Any more updates danny?

Yeah I was thinking about ya too!

 

[3girls2dogs]

I was wondering how things were going myself. I am still praying.

 

[pray_for_us_all]

not alot, the boys are safe (thank god) i get to see them at least 6 days a week if not 7 (i miss for wednesday night service some) today is the 6th day she has not called or went by and seen them, last time it was 8 days with out calling or seeing them. i dont get it she kept them away from me for 10 days when she first left and i was crushed now she misses a week at a time with out seeing them and she has every opportunity or she could at least call. i work so i dont go until late in the evening she doesnt so she can go anytime. she is still with the same guy she is telling everyone that her and jeff are getting the boys back. i dont see it i believe that god will deliver them back to me to be raised in a christian home. im still praying for her and him i still love her and would take her back right now. she needs alot of help. she chain smokes now, she didnt smoke while we were married. i heard that him and her were fall down drunk the other day when they stopped at her brothers house. this is a woman that was praising god with me just a few weeks ago in church. i just dont understand it i want her to come home so bad, but i have to make the boys my top priority. to see that they are not in a situation to be around that. my 2 year old ask me if the babies bottle had beer in it they never seen a beer in my house. so it must have been while she still at them he was like daddy beer. i was crushed. i got to spend christmas day with them that was awesome. she came christmas eve and spent 1 hour and 15 minutes then she had to go pick her b/f up. the hardest part was seeing the tags on the boys presents they were labeled from (mom & jeff) that was hard to take but i can do all things through jesus christ who strengthens me. i heard from her sister that she is going around trying to sell her wedding rings, im still wearing my faithfully because i'm still married she is to she just doenst act like it. it hurts that she wants to sell it. she tells them she wants to get rid of everything i gave her. o well thats about it got another month from today until the court date but i talked with my attorney while ago and he said that he will have to move it because of a conflict. hopefully sooner than later please pray for that tonight and tomorrow. i want my babies back. thanks for all the prayers some times im feeling down and a few minutes later im on top of the world and i know that someone is praying for me so thank you all.

 

[llghoney]

Hey

Glad to hear that you are able to see the boys & that they are safe. I really do not know how you are staying soooo strong. Diffentely God I know! So do you really think she will want to be with this guy forever? I hope & pray for the kids sake that everything works out. God has a plan for you!!!

Take care
God bless you!!!

 

[kayd1966]

I have been thinking and praying for you too and am happy to hear that the boys are still safe and you are still staying strong in the Lord...even though you have those down time, God does lead us through the valley. When do you go back to court?

I am still praying for you...please keep us updated...God Bless

 

[HunterJG]

I just want to say that you are encouragement to me. It is amazing to see how you walk in faith in such difficult circumstances. I'm going through a divorce now and I hope and pray that God works with me as He has worked with you. I will pray for you and believe God will come through for you.

 

[JamieGraham]

Danny DANNY Danny....I believe you - really.
I am so sorry - how evil to do that to you and your family.
This is so traumatic for you. I wish I caould just give you an embrace with warm blessings....I am praying for you and feel your pain through your words. Your heart is jumping off of the pages...

I do not know what to say - but protect yourself first -as you are the protector of your boys. Do not be alone with her ever so she cannot accuse you of anything.
She is most likely being influenced by this guy too.

This is the oldest trick inthe books and is truly unfair. She may try and brainwash the kids too. Be ready for that potentially. Bring up to the judge that she is with an X jailhouse guy. Try and find out what he did - if you know where he lives you can get his license palte number...if he somehow bought the house it will be on public record.
Just be very low key as you do not know him or what he is capable of.

Please PM or post so we know how you are.

Blessings and I am praying for you!

 

[pray_for_us_all]

well my lawyer got the date postponed until feb. 24th was the 10th that stinks said he couldnt make it that day. i really dont feel comfortable with the attorney that i hired. he was a cheaper attorney and now i believe i should have went with a better attorney its not to late i know. i have been praying that if i was supposed to hire a better attorney that someone would help me financially with the situation. well today that person offered. thank god. so im going to look into getting a better attorney someone i feel more comfortable with and someone i feel will do more to keep my boys from that situation.

i know the everything happens for the good, and that god is in control of the situation.

just keep praying with me

 

[wannaberichr]

Definately get a better attorney. You will regret it if you don't. My first divorce went bad for me because of my inept attorney. You have to do what is right for you and the boys. Also, if you know the guy's first and last name, you can get his criminal history as part of public record.

 

[kayd1966]

still praying and will continue too...keep us updated & Praise the Lord, that a better lawyer is willing to represent you!

 

[livin4thelord8]

Wow! My heart and prayers are certainly going to you and your boys. I, too, am in a horrible situation and it is so wonderful to see another one with such faith in God. I can tell you from experience that faith can inded move mountains, or rather our faith in God and then God moves the mountains but you know what I mean. My best advice is to continue in prayer and studying the Word and keep your Christian friends close to you. My friends and family at church have helped me in more ways that can be counted. Pray for guidance in finding a lawyer and ask around to find a good one. Maybe ask others who have been in similar circumstances who they suggest. The fact that God provided you with the means to pay for it is proof that He is with you. I'm sure you are always aware of that but it always feels good to be 'reminded' of this. He will point you in the right direction. In my custody battle it gave me peace to remember that God loves my boys EVEN MORE than I do and He will do what will give Him glory and what is best for them (and you). After all, He loves us all more than can be fathomed. God bless you all and please keep us updated!!!

 

[pray_for_us_all]

ok i fired my attorney and was blessed by a friend to obtain a very very good divorce attorney. who by the way got the court date changed back from the 24th to the 10th thank god . when i fired my attorney they said there was not way she could get it changed they were wrong lol.
she says its no problem the boys are coming home
she said she checked me out and check into the situation before she took the case i have nothing to worry about she says the abuse allegations will never hold up because i've never done anything. i dont even have a speeding ticket on my record lol.

biggest think she told me to just keep praying. she got a phone call once during our meeting and it was good news for another case she had and she shouted thank you lord. that was up lifting.

keep us in your prayers

thanks danny

 

[kayd1966]

Still praying for you...that is such great news, and I will keep believing and trusting the Lord for a wonderful outcome in this situation. Praise the Lord that you have a lawyer that Praises Him!

 

[3girls2dogs]

I am glad to hear such good news. I love reading your updates because you are so faithful and optimistic. It is wonderful to see. I am praying the Lord will reward your faithfulness and that your boys will be with you safe and sound in no time.

 

[livin4thelord8]

Great! A Christian lawyer! God certainly did lead you there! Praise God!!! I will continue to pray for you and your boys.

 

[BigNorsk]

I just wanted to say that the delays seem to me to be working for you. Information and behavior is building up that more and more points to you as the person who is responsible in your behavior and truthful in what you say.

It is very difficult for a judge to determine this in many proceedings. Often the offending party is able to straighten up for a period of time but your wife hasn't made any such attempt. That bodes well for you and the children.

If you aren't doing so, I recommend writing everything down in a journal as it happens. There are likely to still be false accusations made by her and a journal could help you and your lawyer know who is best to help you refute that.

It is also quite possible that she just fades out and leaves you all alone. That's what seems to be happening, but she probably still thinks she should care for her children even as her actions show she doesn't, so she still makes some gestures as though she did care. Again time is working for you.

Best wishes, don't loose your cool. That one slap could still be costly, but it is lessened as you show it is not a pattern. Be prepared to answer for it.

Marv

 

[pray_for_us_all]

what did you mean by that one slap could be costly all of the abuse allegations she made are false most people she had told relized that when whe moved in with the guy the day she left. even though she went to help and crisis to get them to get her a protective order she refused to let them get her a place to stay.

standing on faith and relying on prayer

 

[llghoney]

I was thinking about ya & hoping & praying that things are ok!