Just got a phone call need some advise

[llghoney]

Do you know that guy she is with?

 

[pray_for_us_all]

yes i know him we were giving him rides to church, i should have known i guess i knew she dated him before we met but that was along time ago, then she leaves i find out that she is picking him up from work, and taking him to down, i even have a witness who says they set there with my boys ages 2 years and a 2 month old for 25 minutes while she was in our house alone with him but she claims she was getting dog food to feed the dogs i cant prove adultery because i have never caught them in the act

thanks for your prayers

danny

 

[llghoney]

So do you know why he was in jail?

 

[pray_for_us_all]

he done over a year in a prison drug boot camp, he was arrested for 1st degree burglary, 2nd degree assualt and battery and a few more + he takes anger management classes or was his own sister said he the nicest guy in the world until he get mad then he loses all sence of reality. just please keep praying that the truth will prevail and she and the boys will be safe and pray for peace on my part i spend my evenings in prayer i go from friends to friends having them pray with me.

thanks danny

 

[Autumnleaf]

How did your wife meet this dashing fellow who seems to have swept her off her feet?

 

[pray_for_us_all]

UPDATE

How did your wife meet this dashing fellow who seems to have swept her off her feet?

she has known him for years she dated him before we met about 6.5 years ago i think they dated back in grade school or something and he got out of prison about 4 months ago and apparntly swept her off her feet

i had to file for a divorce this morning from the woman that i stood before god in that church and said i would love and cherish her forever.

and it hurts so bad not to see the boys or her, to go home to a empty house where use to ever time i came home from work i would hear the 2 year old running across the house hollering daddy daddy daddy and just to know that she is laying with someone else plus spreading all the lies about me

thanks for the prayers please continue

 

[Autumnleaf]

UPDATE


she has known him for years she dated him before we met about 6.5 years ago i think they dated back in grade school or something and he got out of prison about 4 months ago and apparntly swept her off her feet

i had to file for a divorce this morning from the woman that i stood before god in that church and said i would love and cherish her forever.

and it hurts so bad not to see the boys or her, to go home to a empty house where use to ever time i came home from work i would hear the 2 year old running across the house hollering daddy daddy daddy and just to know that she is laying with someone else plus spreading all the lies about me

thanks for the prayers please continue

Can you arrange to have him sent back to prison?

 

[llghoney]

Will be continuing to pray for you! I am deeply sorry!!!

It kinda sounds like you may be able to show abandonment by her not sure though. Your lawyer will help you with that.

 

[kayd1966]

I'm so sorry Danny...I will continue to pray for you all ... when was the last time you saw your boys? See if your lawyer can arrange for a visit...it must be so hard on your two year old.

 

[StillLearning101]

God Bless you---
I hope you get the boys, I PRAY you get the boys.
Lord help you. Hang in there and keep us updated.

 

[pray_for_us_all]

tomorrow is the protection ordering hearing, i am praying that god will bring out the truth i know he can open the judge's eyes to see the truth. my wife took the boys by my sisters house yesterday and had a big hickey on her neck that was a little tough to take although she still denies she left me for that guy, im just trying to stay focused on god, there is no other way through this. i heard she is even smoking now that is so different than her, she use to chastise people that tried to smoke around the kids and now she does it. i just dont understand. i know god can see the outcome but i cant so i have to rely on her to get me through this just please be in prayer about this with me. all i want is the truth to prevail tomorrow.

thanks danny

 

[llghoney]

DAnny,

I will be praying for you!! I know that God has a plan for you & it may seem kinda tough right now but greater things are to come! Just keep staying strong & keep the faith!

 

[kayd1966]

Father God; you know this whole situation first hand, even better than Danny. You can see the beginning and the end. Please watch over Danny's sons, keep them safe from harm and danger, let them know that their Daddy loves them and is doing his best to get back to them. Father, I pray that Your Hand would be on Danny today as he prepares for the hearing and keep Your Hand on him tomorrow as he sits through the hearing. I ask that you would send supportive people to be with him tomorrow in court. Father; please oversee every part of the hearing tomorrow, keep Your Hand on the judge, my he/she see the truth and rule accordingly, keep Your Hand on the lawyers, may they speak the truth so that the judge has the correct information and I pray that You would bring Danny's wife back to You.

This whole situation is in Your Hand Father, and we pray that Danny would find peace in knowing that You are ALL KNOWING and that You are in control...In Jesus Name Amen.

 

[llghoney]

Father God; you know this whole situation first hand, even better than Danny. You can see the beginning and the end. Please watch over Danny's sons, keep them safe from harm and danger, let them know that their Daddy loves them and is doing his best to get back to them. Father, I pray that Your Hand would be on Danny today as he prepares for the hearing and keep Your Hand on him tomorrow as he sits through the hearing. I ask that you would send supportive people to be with him tomorrow in court. Father; please oversee every part of the hearing tomorrow, keep Your Hand on the judge, my he/she see the truth and rule accordingly, keep Your Hand on the lawyers, may they speak the truth so that the judge has the correct information and I pray that You would bring Danny's wife back to You.

This whole situation is in Your Hand Father, and we pray that Danny would find peace in knowing that You are ALL KNOWING and that You are in control...In Jesus Name Amen.

 

[StillLearning101]

Please let us know what happens...I am praying for you!

 

[pray_for_us_all]

update from a postive side i went ahead and did the puppet show sunday i canceled saturday show and plan to make it up this weekend. but it was a blessing kids and adults alike loved it. there were adults giving testimonies on how it touched their hearts. and people going up for prayer. it was amazing i know satan despised it.

please keep my family in prayer i only want her to know that i forgive those are the sweetest words you will ever hear.

prayer makes a difference the hearing is at 9:00am in the morning oklahoma time everyone i know is praying at the time for the judge to see the truth.

 

[StillLearning101]

Well definetely let us know after the hearing in the morning...we'll all be waiting.

 

[pray_for_us_all]

Went to the protective order hearing this morning it was granted the judge ask her if she still needed it and she said yes, i ask could i give me side he said ok then i did i told him i had done none of that and that she had left me for another man and is trying to have a better chance of getting the kids i told him i have no record at all nothing the only time i ever go to jail is as a chaplin and he told her to make arrangements for me to see the kids and her not to come around me or me around her. so i got to see the boys for a few minutes the 2 year old had tears in his eyes, the boys were dirty when she dropped them off and the 2 year old has lice and the bottles were dirty and the smelled like cigarette smoke. she looks bad i dont know what is wrong with her. i told her in court that i loved her and i forgive her. then i told her that again over the phone through a mediator. we start the divorce trial in the morning just a meeting with a judge to see if it can be worked out i love her with all my heart and will forgive anything. she is taking the boys to my sisters tomorrow night to let me see them for 3 hours . i miss them so bad. im in prayer that she will come to her self just like the prodical son did. she will not look at me at all thats weird she just looks away when i was in there, i am in prayer and fasting for god to touch her heart. my sister told me she is over me because when she told her i loved her she showed no emotion at all. im not giving up so please pray with me.
and good lawyers want to come down and help me out feel free

please pray with me it makes a difference

9:00 am in the morning oklahoma time another trail god will see me through

 

[StillLearning101]

I'm glad you got to see your boys and will again. Keep praying..we all are.
Just remember, if she doesn't want you back for some reason, you have to do what's best for your children and unfortunately it doesn't sound like they need to be with her. Do you think that she is possibly on drugs?

You need evidence to help your children out here.

 

[llghoney]

That is great that you got to tell your side as well & to see your boys!!!

Still in my prayers!