Hi all!
Wisdom Seeker complimented me (thank you!) in being an optimist. We've all heard the old saying that an optimist see the glass as half-full while a pessimist sees it as half-empty. Did you ever wonder
why this is?
I once heard Rabbi David Rosen (
http://www.jewishaustralia.com/rabbidavidrosenbio.htm), who is very involved in interfaith issues, explain it. He explained as follows: The pessimist lives an ideal world. He sees things not as they are but rather as he thinks they should be. He cannot help but be disappointed by the fact that the glass is not full; his outlook for the future is negative because whatever exists in reality will never be able to match his ideal vision. Thus, he sees the glass as half-empty. The optimist, on the other hand, is a realist. He sees things as they are. He cannot help but be pleased that the glass is no longer empty; his outlook for the future is positive because he remembers when the glass
was empty, notes the progress that has been made since then, and is confident of further progress. Thus, he sees the glass as half-full.
I'm an optimist!
FBI78 & Wisdom Seeker, do worship services at your church involve clapping, singing, dancing, etc.?
mle, a cooking group? Mmmm!

What do you like to cook? I love to cook & especially to bake. (Wendy always says that when she was a teenager she asked God

to please send her a husband who knew what to do in the kitchen. Well, He sent her one!) In fact, this upcoming Shabbat (i.e. the Sabbath, i.e. from sundown on Friday to nightfall on Saturday) is our holyday of Tu B'Shvat
http://www.jewfaq.org/holiday8.htm. I always bake date-cake-in-a-can
http://www.christianforums.com/t32639 for Tu B'Shvat.
Yohanan is in first grade. He was 7 2 weeks ago. He missed the cut-off date by about 6 weeks & is thus one of the older kids in his class. We thought about pushing to get him into first grade last year but didn't & are convinced that we did the right thing for him.
Be well!
ssv
