just curious...

[abelieverinChrist05]

I've got a question for those dating or in a relationship.
Is it normal to talk to a friend for about 3-5 hours?
One time i talked to her from 6:30 till 11pm

 

[waxlion10]

I've got a question for those dating or in a relationship.
Is it normal to talk to a friend for about 3-5 hours?
One time i talked to her from 6:30 till 11pm

That would be a pretty lengthy conversation for me to have with someone who's just a friend. If I talk to my friends on the phone, I usually talk for a max of an hour.

When my bf and I were first interested in dating, we talked online for four, five hours almost every night because we were in that stage where we were trying to get to know each other better, and we liked each other a lot

I wouldn't say talking on the phone for that long necessarily makes a relationship "more than friends"; it could be an indicator of mutual attraction if coupled with other things, however.

 

[K9_Trainer]

I've talked to guy friends for 3+ hours on the phone. Thats just me though, I can be talkative.

 

[Blank123]

that sounds like me and my bf before we admitted we had feelings for eachother. a couple times we'd talk from like 8 PM until 3-4 AM

can't say if thats what is going on with you and your friend though. like K9 said, she could just be very talkative. you won't know for sure unless one of you brings the topic up;

 

[Mrs. Luther073082]

I talk to my boyfriend for at least a couple of hours per day and more on the weekends.

I've noticed a lot of other threads that you've made about this friend of yours. You need to just ask this girl out or talk to her about where this is going.

Sometimes people can be just friends and talk that long (I've had friends who I talked to that long before and there was not an attraction between us).

 

[waxlion10]

I talk to my boyfriend for at least a couple of hours per day and more on the weekends.

I've noticed a lot of other threads that you've made about this friend of yours. You need to just ask this girl out or talk to her about where this is going.

Sometimes people can be just friends and talk that long (I've had friends who I talked to that long before and there was not an attraction between us).

Me too I agree that perhaps, soon, something should be said about all this

 

[Northwoods Snowman]

Just a "friend"...might seem kind of long. "Girlfriend" though would be completely normal. I talk to my girl at least an hour and a half every night. We would talk longer but we both have to go to bed and get up in the morning during the week.

 

[California Dreamin']

We don't really talk on the phone anymore because we see each other a lot in person. When we first talked on the phone, the very first time, it was so nice and we talked a lot.

 

[explodingboy]

without some form of long distance thing going on, It does seem strange to chat for that long on the phone for just a friend.

 

[Tannic]

I talk to my boyfriend for at least a couple of hours per day and more on the weekends.

I've noticed a lot of other threads that you've made about this friend of yours. You need to just ask this girl out or talk to her about where this is going.

Sometimes people can be just friends and talk that long (I've had friends who I talked to that long before and there was not an attraction between us).

If this is true than its time to face the truth. Time to ask her out or see where they are heading. When My girl and I was some distance apart like in another city. The phone was going off constantly... We were talking on the phone for almost two hours a day. And than I turned into a text messaging machine because we would text each other constantly and still do. I had to up my text message coverage on my cell phone because of this. Anyhow, hours on the phone with a girl is fine but if you making more threads about this. Than its time to ask her out...

 

[SparkyMaddie]

I think it's normal I've talked to my bf Scott from 11 pm until 3 am before
we were sooo tired

 

[Arclight610]

We talk as much as we can. On my workdays sometimes its only like 30min to an hour. On my off days it can be for awhile. It's sort of our make up time since we only get to see each other a few times a year.

 

[waxlion10]

Note that the OP said "friend" not "girlfriend"

 

[Tannic]

Well friend or Girl friend... talking on the phone for long amounts of time is normal for those you are interested in. I find it funny that its hard to get off the phone too. Even when both parties are tired.

 

[Luther073082]

It can be normal when you are just getting to know someone because you've all got a million stories for eachother.

If you've known eachother for a while and already told them almost all your stories, and you are still talking to them for 3 hours, then there may be something there.

It could be as mild as a mutual desire for eachother's company, or it could be more.

 

[invisiblebabe]

I've talked with male friends for that long before, on multiple occasions.