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^_^

No, it's not even a rule but I'm part of some group there and I've enjoyed it, but she was getting after me for posting comments that were more than a line or two...like what?
 
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Oh yeah and then she said it was hogging the thread to put more than one or two comments there...I don't hog threads...I talk a lot ^_^ but everyone is welcome to talk a lot WITH me!
 
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No, it's not even a rule but I'm part of some group there and I've enjoyed it, but she was getting after me for posting comments that were more than a line or two...like what?

whaaaat? well that's just weird, should be able to comment with as much as ya want.
 
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Yah I agree, and it was just a few posts between me and (ironically) my Dad who is also part of the group there, and anyone else COULD have joined in...but they didn't...but they could have...we weren't TRYING to alienate them. I was like whaaat? OK...whatever.

Actually, that kind of thing really triggers me and gets my blood boiling...that's where my Italian comes in and it takes everything in me to not completely assassinate the person who's telling me I'm wrong...I don't mind being told I'm wrong WHEN I am actually wrong but when I don't think I've done anything wrong, or when I think it's a stupid rule, heck yeah I get mad lol I don't like "injustice".

But my blood will stop boiling eventually. I DO want to respect them there and don't want to alienate anyone but I didn't see that coming and it was a little weird to me.
 
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Oh and I'd never ACTUALLY hurt anyone who was telling me I was wrong, but it sure gets me going and I don't know why...I try to back away and not answer until I'm less mad lol because I never want to hurt anyone!
 
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no it shouldn't be a problem at all to post more. that's strange that she'd say that.
it's prob nothing to do with you, kinda like the last straw on the camels back, ya know? like at work when someone has an adult tantrum with me about something that was nothing to do with me, especially if it's something small, I realise they prob just had a bad day and taking it out on me. I hear ya tho, it doesn't take too much to get my blood boiling too. have to bite my tongue at work sometimes lol
 
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Lol she said she's just doing her job as admin...she doesn't want people to get the idea that the conversation can be between just two people in the group or whatever...I still do not at all understand...but she told me it's nothing personal (I know she really likes me) and that due to the size of the group she's trying to keep in standing with the rules...except the rules don't say anything about that ^_^ Oh well...I've started to calm a little...woweee that really does get to me...geesh...
 
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Like literally I'll freeze and my blood will boil (wait, that's kind of oxymoronish ^_^ ) And my eyes will bug out and I'm not sure whether to cry because I'm mad (like a 2 year old), laugh because it's ridiculous, yell at them because it's unfair, or quit the group. I almost quit the group but I quite like the group and that would be a childish reason to leave.
 
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It says no hogging of threads, but it says no more than 10 in a row...I think that means no more than 10 threads posted (because they like to post pics there)...not 10 posts in a thread? I don't know...but I didn't do more than 10 in a row even then lol
 
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Like literally I'll freeze and my blood will boil (wait, that's kind of oxymoronish ^_^ ) And my eyes will bug out and I'm not sure whether to cry because I'm mad (like a 2 year old), laugh because it's ridiculous, yell at them because it's unfair, or quit the group. I almost quit the group but I quite like the group and that would be a childish reason to leave.

oxymoronish? hahaaa ^_^ yea maybe don't leave the group yet. not a good idea to make quick decisions with heightened emotions, might regret it later.
 
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