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Is this idea in any way biblical?

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I apologize for not keeping up with this topic! I will answer everyone's posts now.


What I said was incomplete, not incorrect. I was in a rush that day. I meant to say that the early churches were mostly all very small home churches.

Now, one can argue that times have changed and denominations were setup and were supposed to choose a denomination and stick with it, but I just feel that many denominations have lost the sense of the word of God. So, this would be a perfect solution as well. My beliefs fit in the most with the old times and with non-denominational Christianity.

I believe the bible should be taken literally, especially many of the verses in the New Testament. And many denominations, don't believe that. So, I just wouldn't fit in.



Thank you for your great advice! I will study the book of Leviticus carefully before going to priesthood for real.



Well, a lot of the things that God has told me to do, has been hard. It was hard to accept that God existed in the first place for me (I was an Atheist for about 8 years). The path that I'm currently following that God has been taking me on, is hard and has been hard. Nothing in life is easy so, it does make me question that if something is easy it might lead me astray.

But, you're right. It definitely won't be easy. I'll have to take theology classes, and do years of studying before I'm to become a capable minister in any way, shape, or form. It just seems like the easier alternative I guess? Because, if I become a minister for a large non-denominational church, I'll have to move, I'll have to learn to speak in front of a large crowd of 100+ people, whereas if I had a home church It'd be a much smaller audience (Which would be hard for me to do. I think 5-10 people would be my cap at the moment) ,

The only call that I know is strong, is the call to ministry. I know that is the right path but, how to take that path, I don't know.

What about if you found a pastor/teacher who could be like a mentor.

Just someone you could talk to and maybe who could help guide you? Tell you the things that are most important and just be like a sounding board for you?

That's a fantastic idea, I will do that.


I disagree, many things that he's told me to do that were the right path were never made 100% clear and he's never told me 100% of everything all at once.

What were the early churches like? Certainly from reading the apostles letters, they were home churches which then grew until they needed a specific building to contain all the members.

Right, but one can also argue that times have changed and since the denominations formed, and a majority (if not all) of the churches today are home churches. So, I should keep with the times. But, then again whenever someone says "Get with the times." They also ignore the bible. Like, for say example Abortion. It's accepted across the country and if you don't abort your kid, it's considered "wrong" and the wrong way to do it.

Yet, the bible explicitly forbids it.

But, you're right, they are and were biblical at one point in time, I don't see why it cannot be done today and why it shouldn't be done today. I cannot think of a reason.


I placed it in Christian History due to an error, I thought it was the Christian Advice section when I posted it. But, I guess parts of this can be history?

Thank you for your fantastic advice, I will take it all into consideration.


I agree with you and all others who tell me, that I should study extensively before I take up priesthood. And I do agree with you, that I need to be able to answer ALL questions that people will be asking me and I will need to know the answers to more than just the frequently asked questions.

I ruled out denominational churches for reasons I've stated a few times in this topic already. I feel that denominations have over the years, lost the word of God. I became non-denominational because it was the Christian denomination that fit me and my religious beliefs the best and fit the word of God the best. I can either choose to relocate to a bigger city, or start my own church.


I never meant to say there was, my mother, Grandfather, and grandmother, are all Catholic. A majority of my family have been Catholics and Protestants. I personally was born and raised Catholic, I just never really fit in with the Catholic church and ever since I was a child, never agreed with their religious beliefs. I don't mean to call them wrong, we are all Christians. They just don't fit with me and they don't fit with the bible.

I believe the bible to be 100% accurate fact and, I can't be Catholic while believing those things. Because they practice many things that aren't in the bible. So, it's nothing against Catholics they are free to believe what they want to. It just, doesn't fit with me and, I never belonged there.


Thank you for your encouragement! I will do that!



Thank you for reminding me of that fact! I had forgotten.


Right, which I agree to. Some of the things God asks us to do are just not 100% clear and we are meant to figure out for ourselves. I'm going to need many years of training and experience before I can fully set this into motion.


Your words are wise, I agree with you. I will take them into account.

How did you get Ordained? I am wondering what your Christian background is, and what version of the Bible do you use? Thanks for answering my questions.

I had already stated this on page 2 but, It's getting to be a big topic so, I understand why you haven't read it all. I was ordained online by the Christian Harvest Church. Which, gave me the legal right to perform everything and to be ordained but, as many people have pointed out throughout the topic that I agree with, it doesn't make me ordained by God. I still have a long way to go before that happens.

My Christian Background? I was born, baptized, and raised Catholic and barely followed the faith for 18 years.

I quit Sunday School after a few months, But took classes during the weekday after school to make my mother happy. I received my first communion late at the age of like, 14. And, I never had my confirmation.

At the age of 18, I left Christianity for good for a while and became an Atheist. Then, around the age of 26 or so after I couldn't take my Sinful life anymore, because it was completely falling apart. I rejoined Christianity, accepted Christ as Lord and savior and rose to what I believe was Heaven, was visited by the holy spirit, and cleansed of my sins in a dream that night. I also met my wife a few months after that and my life began to change for the better.

Skipping over a few irrelevant parts, I spent about 2 years studying the bible and trying to find a denomination that fit with the bible. I finally found Non-Denominational Christianity and it fit perfectly and I have considered myself Non-Denominational ever since. I haven't walked in a church since I was 27 (It was a Catholic one). And before that, I was about the age of 15.

My wife and I got married last year and have been trying to find a Church to attend with no success. So, both of us feel like Heathens and feel that, it's about time we start attending church and getting as close as possible to God again. And, that's about all of my Christian Background skipping the irrelevant parts.

I have been using the King James Version of the bible since 2015. Before that, I read a Catholic one online and used my wife's Catholic one. I believe It's NLT. But, I'm not sure.



It's very fast. I now realize that, it was a mistake and I should have taken the much, much longer path and gotten ordained by a non-denominational church in my State instead. I guess, I just wanted to rush everything because, I usually give up on things way too early and, I didn't want to give up on this.
 
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What I said was incomplete, not incorrect. I was in a rush that day. I meant to say that the early churches were mostly all very small home churches.

Nope, not incomplete but incorrect. There was only one congregation per city. That congregation may have met most often in small groups simply because there were no large facilities permitted (except rented facilities as Paul rented in Ephesus), but "home church" is an incorrect concept. They were city-wide congregations that met in homes.
 
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It's okay. You have time to do the work you need to do now. Your path might have been a bit irregular but God will still be able to do something useful with it!

I just wanted to say - you don't need to be able to answer all questions you get asked. And in fact it's important to realise that there will always be questions which you can't answer. Sometimes that will be the start of a process of you and the person asking exploring the question together (if it's a faith-related question).

But sometimes the right thing to do will be to refer that person on to someone else with more expertise in an appropriate area. I refer people to doctors, counsellors and the like often, even lawyers sometimes, or whatever, because I'm not any of those things and it would be dangerous for me to pretend to be competent in that area.
 
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Most home churches I see are more of bible studies almost. Not like a traditional church where theres a pastor, communion...etc. That aside if you can't find a church to go to just watch live streams every sunday online. Theres an infinite amount of places you can watch. When we don't make it to church, we just watch the stream online. And best part is lets say you are gone on a sunday, you can go home and watch the service at any time since they record them and put them online.
 
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I read your very long answers, that must of taken you a good amount of time to respond to all of us, thank you.

Being called to be a Pastor requires preparation, and when God calls it all begins with "Here am I Lord". Just a few ideas for you. Get a Bible that is as accurate as possible, the NLT is NOT even close, as it is a paraphrased version to make easy reading to just get the ideas of what is being said. The most accurate Bibles are 1. New American Standard Bible. 2. English Standard Version. 3. Holman Christian Standard Bible. Most of the other versions are gender neutral, mostly dynamic equivalent translations. For you learning what the Bible says about the basic areas of Christian growth is vital to begin the preparation to become a Pastor / preacher.

You need to start educating yourself with Bible courses, either by long-distance learning or by moving to where a Bible school is located. Just the desire is the first part of Gods calling. Preparation is the next part of your calling. Some Try to avoid preparing and just jumping right in without any training what so ever, and end up shipwrecking their faith and hurting people who began to be a part of a church these ill prepared pastors started.

You need to pray for God to verify your call and that is done in many ways, but always by a burning desire to Follow Jesus. I would not be hung up on non denominationalism. Try going to say a Baptist church. God works is many churches that not too many are alike except for basic Doctrines.

My wife and I found God gave us ample opportunities to serve and preach while preparing for ministry. One word of caution, I would be very careful of borrowing to get your preparation in educating you and your wife. My wife and I both did our college and Seminary together, but at different paces. We both felt we needed to prepare as a couple. Otherwise we felt is would be a disadvantage in our growth as a couple who wanted to grow together. That has proved to be a good choice.

Do not forget the evil one is going to do all he can to put obstacles in your path, and bring discouragement, cause fights, and financial troubles and more to do all he can to stop you from growing in your faith and following the call you believe God is drawing you to/

Be much in prayer that Gods call may not be in ministry, but just for you to be as close to Jesus Christ as possible as both have similar feelings. May God direct path, and be with you.
 
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That would be fine for shut inns. However Scripture says otherwise. Hebrews 10:24 and 25 makes it clear we are to be a part of a local body. That may require several options. But God will show us His way if we submit our will to His and walk out in faith one step at a time. Perhaps some other couple could take them with them where they go. There is always Gods way and our way. Satan does all he can to stop us from going to church. Clothes are still wet in the dryer, fight with the mate, kids act up, car won't start, alarm did not go off, it's raining, snowing, it's too hot, I am too tired. There are millions of reasons Satan uses to keep us out of Worshipping the Lord at Church. The real test of Faith sometimes is getting out of bed.
 
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I thought God wanted me to marry my ex-husband. I was wrong.


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My wife would say the same thing about her ex-husband. She was so sure she was supposed to marry him and deliver him from his "gayness." Didn't happen. 12 years of a very difficult life for her and a realization that feelings, no matter how strong they are, are not the Lord telling her to do something. She now uses wisdom and processes her feelings to see what possible meanings they may have. She loved her ex, he loved her. Love alone is not enough. In a similar way, a "call to ministry" might just be strong compassion, and it might be better directed into other ways of serving.
 
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Well you won't go to hell or be in sin if you don't belong to a body. Though obviously you probably will fall from God since you have no input/output through anyone.


If we do not obey in the small issues do you think Jesus will trust us with bigger issues? Being called to be a pastor and not going to Worship with other believers, is a serious flaw right off the bat. Gods Word has spoken and for me that settles that.
 
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Oh no I agree. Bu being called to be pastor may or may not be true, sometimes its the person wanting it. Sometimes its God. In the end obviously we cannot say which because only God knows. As for worshiping with other believers, I agree. You should be doing it. However I have seen many who don't because they see no evidence that it is a sin if you don't go at all. Which sadly its up to them. But you will never grow as a christian sitting at home and ignoring church.
 
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There were no church buildings, but there were definitely churches--congregations
There were seven churches and we can read about them in the book of Rev. Their strengths and their weakness. Some people feel they are a type of the different churches that we still have in the world today. Although every now and then someone will say this is no longer the church age, this is the Kingdom age. But as a dispensationalist I believe this is still the church age. (Age of Grace, Holy Spirit Dispensation)
 
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You know I thought about doing something similar, the Church in the first century was no where near as institutional as the church of today. As a matter of fact I think that the church should de-institutionalize.

How do you plan on getting members? Door to door?
 
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What do you mean by "institutional?"
 
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My beliefs fit in the most with the old times and with non-denominational Christianity.
A non-denominational church is simply a church that doesn't answer to a larger body such as a denominational headquarters. This means that should it go astray, there is no one to hold it accountable. It is independent. There is absolutely no guarantee that it is closer to the original teachings of the apostles than any denominational church.
 
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I think it depends on the kind of person leading it. As long as it's based on the Bible (specifically Christ's example) it's what I want to model.
 
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I think it depends on the kind of person leading it. As long as it's based on the Bible (specifically Christ's example) it's what I want to model.
All churches are based on the Bible. It all depends on the INTERPRETATION of the Bible.
 
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