Mary is the mother of Jesus
Jesus is God
Mary is the mother of God
Jesus is also male, which doesn't mean Mary gave birth to maleness. This might help, unless you're asserting a Marian likeness to Juno:
Theotokos specifically excludes the understanding of Mary as Mother of God in the eternal sense. Christians believe that God is the cause of all, with neither origin nor source, and is therefore "without a
mother." This stands in contrast to classical
Greco-Roman religion in particular, where a number of
divine female figures appear as "mothers" of other divinities,
demi-gods, or heroes. For example,
Juno was revered as the mother of
Vulcan;
Aphrodite, as the mother of
Aeneas.
On the other hand, most Christians believe
God the Son is begotten of
God the Father "from all
eternity" (see
Trinity and
Nicene Creed), but is born "in time" of Mary.
Theotokos thus refers to the
Incarnation, when the Second Person of the Holy Trinity took on human nature in addition to his pre-existing divine nature, this being made possible through the cooperation of Mary.
Since mainstream Christians understand Jesus Christ as both fully God and fully human, they call Mary
Theotokos to affirm the fullness of God's incarnation. The
Council of Ephesus decreed, in opposition to those who denied Mary the title
Theotokos ("the one who gives birth to God") but called her
Christotokos ("the one who gives birth to Christ"), that Mary
is Theotokos because her son Jesus is one person who is both God and man, divine and human. (Some Protestants still insist that Mary cannot be truly
Theotokos, but only
Christotokos.
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Cyril of Alexandria wrote, "I am amazed that there are some who are entirely in doubt as to whether the holy Virgin should be called
Theotokos or not. For if our Lord Jesus Christ is God, how is the holy Virgin who gave [Him] birth, not [
Theotokos]?" (Epistle 1, to the monks of Egypt;
PG 77:13B). Thus the significance of
Theotokos lies more in what it says about Jesus than any declaration about Mary.
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