I believe scripture means what it says. When it talks about women not being in charge of men, I'm happy enough that I've understood what it means. But do times change?
1 Cor 14:33 - 35
For God is not a God of confusion but of peace. As in all the churches of the saints, the women should keep silent in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be in submission, as the Law also says. If there is anything they desire to learn, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church.
1 Tim 2:11 - 15
Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness. I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise authority over a man; rather, she is to remain quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve; and Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a transgressor. Yet she will be saved through childbearing—if they continue in faith and love and holiness, with self-control.
In Genesis, the sign of (physical) circumcision was supposed to be an everlasting covenant. But in the NT, physical circumcision and the Old Testament laws were done away with (fulfilled in Christ). Although Gentiles were still not supposed to eat meat with blood, or commit sexual immorality. I can understand this - New Testament, New Covenant.
But, wasn't part of the sign from God that the OT laws need no longer be adhered to by NT believers, that the Holy Spirit was poured out on the Gentiles (e.g. Cornelius and his household). What about women teachers who claim (or appear to have) the Holy Spirit poured out on them? Is this false, as there is no new covenant since the New Covenant?
So what about when women defy these verses, but are acting with genuine love to their congregations? (Not that I have seen this). What about if there are no male Christians in a newly established church, or if the only male Christians are recent converts? Is it too legalistic to say that women can never teach or have authority over a man?
Where Paul states "as the Law also says", what about Deborah, whom God specifically sent to Barack? I guess she wasn't teaching a man (or men). Is the no women rule a general good rule to follow, but when/if God wants, He would demonstrate that His exception is inspired by Him?
I'd be interested in thoughts that are consistent with scripture, but not the tired old excuses like "that was just the culture at that time" or similar, when Paul clearly links the requirement for women not to be leaders to Eve's sin (which is timeless).
(Oh - by the way - I'm probably what some might consider a somewhat (male) chauvinist. I like the idea of women getting married, staying home and being pregnant by the kitchen sink, but I know there's not a bible verse that says it that way. I also have known one or two women to be better than most men at what they do, and several online that are smarter than a roomful of rocket scientists - certainly moreso than me. I think that if scripture didn't prohibit it, I wouldn't mind the idea of women leading men).
[Edit: Just to clarify the above, so people don't take me as a complete chauvinist pig, it is the Golden Rule somewhat. If I were a woman, I would love nothing more than to get married, stay home and be barefoot and pregnant, so I'm not wishing on others something I wouldn't wish on myself. I do think I'd prefer to be a woman for this reason. But I also understand that some people - even women - really do enjoy going out to work... for some reason].
Thanks for your comments, and please be civil.
Believing scripture means what it says, then with that faith, listen to Christ's words to us about what we today call 'leadership' --
Matthew 23:10 Nor are you to be called instructors, for you have one Instructor, the Christ.
It means precisely what it says, don't you agree?
New Living Translation
And don't let anyone call you 'Teacher,' for you have only one teacher, the Messiah.
English Standard Version
Neither be called instructors, for you have one instructor, the Christ.
New American Standard Bible
"Do not be called leaders; for One is your Leader, that is, Christ.
King James Bible
Neither be ye called masters: for one is your Master,
even Christ.
Good News Translation
Nor should you be called 'Leader,' because your one and only leader is the Messiah.
Young's Literal Translation
nor may ye be called directors, for one is your director -- the Christ.
If so, there really is just one.single Instructor/Teacher/Leader/Master, only. Not more than 1. Exactly and only 1.
If one says very reasonably (and encouragingly) that they want the full context, to get the intended meaning in full context, that's a very good practice, and here's the context:
Matthew 23 ESV
There isn't
human authority over us that matters, in Christ, but instead we are all under the authority of Christ. All the added human types of authority are invalid.
A pastor is a servant. A shepherd under the Master Shepherd
The
servant is the correct human position
--
1 At that time the disciples came to Jesus, saying, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?”
2 And calling to him a child, he put him in the midst of them
3 and said, “Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
4 Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven."
So, back to Matthew chapter 23, we see the very next 2 verses. He says to us --
11 "The greatest among you will be your servant.
12 For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted."
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In his epistles, if you read through fully, you will find that
Paul gives both general principles and temporary instructions specific to a situation in a certain place/time. Both. One thing that helps us modern readers when we read such things as instructions to slaves to remain cheerful servants to even to harsh masters (to help convert them), for women to not demand social revolutions during church services (even though they had just gained the amazing new freedom in Christ to worship together with the men instead of separately as always before this time)....
...is to read fully through the chapter
1 Corinthians 8 ESV
and to get the general principle, the general message.
Women were at that time to suffer, self-sacrificially, for the sake of the "
weak". Because at that time for women to have more voice would have destroyed some of the "weak".
That's still true today -- we are each, every last one of us, to be willing to suffer self-sacrificially right now today for the sake of the weak among us.
But what that weakness is will change from century to century, even sometimes from decade to decade.
But the principle remains the same.
So, if you really want to apply the instruction from Paul, ask yourself honestly right here and right now --
who are the weak among us today?, in our church, and how do I need to self-sacrifically change what I do for their sakes, for the sakes of their eternal future?