There are people whose low-self-esteem is a form of pride or attention-seeking. E.g., there are people who, no matter what is happening, are constantly thinking about themselves and how they aren't good enough, will be laughed at, are going to be rejected, etc. So, by necessity, everything revolves around them. I have a friend who is like this; she's so caught up in how bad she feels about herself, she constantly says horrible things to people, because she's always panicking and then blurting things out...but heaven help you if you respond with , "hey, you hurt my feelings", because then you have to deal with an avalanche of tears and hysteria. It can be very frustrating, because to others, the person seems to be obsessed with themselves and unable to think about anything else.
Also, there are people who, no matter how much others reassure and love them, simply refuse to accept their own worth. This is a kind of pride too. I mean, when God Himself says "I love you", and we say, "well, I hate myself", there's a kind of disobedience there. Kind of saying we know better than God. And that's what pride is.
But then there are others who are very oriented towards others, and are dear and sweet, but when their feelings are hurt (as everyones are eventually!), they take longer to recover and struggle a bit. And there's nothing wrong with that, it's just a question of temperament, not a character flaw necessarily.
Bear in mind too that ALL people have some kind of pride they're suffering from. Having low self esteem doesn't make you immune! We are all sinners. This person may well be talking about herself. And in another way, she's talking about all of us! Me included!