Is it wise to take steps on my own?

[healiheal242526]

I've been to all different kinds of 12 step meetings and I can never seem to fit in with the fellowship.

I have a bible and workbook called the "life recovery bible" and the 12 workbook that goes with it.

I was always told not to take steps on my own in all the 12 step groups I've been to, however my question is:

Would it be wise to go through the workbook on my own and take steps?

 

[madison1101]

[I know plenty of Christians in AA, and we all work the Steps with our sponsors, because that is how the Big Book says it is to be done. I tried to work the steps alone, never completely made amends, and drank and had a horrific relapse.

If you are an alcoholic, you might not feel comfortable in AA at first. I was not comfortable for years. But, I am today. Pray and ask God to help you go to meetings to be a light for Him. Being obedient to the Lord isn't always comfortable.

In addition to AA, I attend a support group at my church, for women in recovery. We go through the Steps using the Life Recovery Bible.

Addiction and alcoholism are diseases of isolation. We need support, and we find loving acceptance in the 12 Step rooms, because the people there understand us more than the sober people in our churches. I go to AA to be a light for the Lord, not to make friends or pal around. I get the friendships from attending Bible studies at my church, and worship services.

 

[healiheal242526]

I will take that into consideration.

Thank you

 

[chilehed]

Step 1 is the acceptance that we're powerless, that our lives are unmanageable, that we suffer from a form of insanity.

If you think that you can work the steps by yourself, then you haven't really taken Step 1.

 

[munski1968]

The Big Book actually never even mentions the word *sponsor*, but yes, I agree that having one is a vital part of recovery, as well as having a good support network. Man was not meant to be alone. Going it alone is a recipe for disaster!

 

[RUKiddingme]

"Would it be wise to go through the workbook on my own and take steps?"

Ugh, the answer to that would be NO!!!.......You don't even know what your reading.
You can't be anonymous in alcoholics anonymous. You're a photographer, you go into dark rooms alone and develope negatives

 

[Red A.]

Would it be wise to go through the workbook on my own and take steps?

Short answer is no. If this is all you can bring yourself to do right now go ahead and give it a try.

You have mail.