Who God's chosen people are, can only be answered by God Himself. We have not the wisdom to know.
I think you either misunderstood my question or you are ducking the question. I wasn't asking you to identify which individuals are the elect. I agree, only God knows. I was asking, in a general sense, in your view, who are the elect? Is everyone the elect? Are only some people the elect? Why are they elect? Are only believers the elect? Why did God choose them? When did He choose them?
What concerns me about the doctrine of the elect is that there are so many people who know Christ, desire Christ, and love Christ, but get caught up in the fear that they are not the elect. We shouldn't concern ourselves with such things.
The Bible teaches these things, thus we are expected to concern ourselves with them.
We should focus our attention on loving others, in my case, because of the hope that they will learn who Christ is, in yours, just in case they are an elect.
Me teaching someone about the doctrine of election is loving them. Hearing that God loved you from eternity past so much that He set out to save you without fail is the best news someone could possible learn.
There is no pride from the way that I believe, because God deserves all the credit in both your and my view, in yours, because you are not responsible for your salvation, and in mine, because I wouldn't even have had the chance to be saved if God had not first died on the cross for me, and then allowed me to live as a sinner until I came to know the Truth of His love for me.
Since you don't credit God for your faith and willingness to come to Him, there is room to boast in your view. In your view, the faith and willingness came
from you. In my view, it is the result of God's effectual work to save me.
The only real fundamental thing we disagree on is how many people have the chance to throw themselves on the cross and ask Him into their heart
We don't disagree on that. Everyone who wants to, can throw themselves on the cross. That's my view. How does it differ from yours?
We both agree that everyone who believes in Christ will be saved. In both of our views, in the end, every single believer is who will be in heaven.
Where we differ is, in my view, that group of people was gauranteed to become believers.
In your view, there was no guarantee that those people would become believers. It just happened by chance and luck.
In my view, God loved these people with an everlasting love, and chose to save them out of pure, undeserved grace and mercy.
In your view, God just got lucky that some people just happened to buy the gospel. He left the eternal fate of the souls of men to chance. Like tossing the dice.
You argue against the "lottery", but that's exactly what your view is: luck, chance, etc.