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Maybe not so much for secular girls, but most Christian girls are pretty determined to get married.
From what I am hearing in these forums, the Christian women are far from determined.
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Maybe not so much for secular girls, but most Christian girls are pretty determined to get married.
I had posted a longer response, but I deleted it. I think you are right that most of the guys in singles have reached this conclusion about Christian women. There really is no point for me or other female members in Singles to share a different perspective, because it gets ignored. I've tried to be encouraging in many of these threads. It's been a little disheartening to see how quickly the encouragement gets brushed aside or totally ignored. I give up, haha. We keep being told that women don't want relationships or marriage anymore, even though some of us express the exact opposite. So, I concede the point. Women don't want men, lol. There, now we can all be in agreementFrom what I am hearing in these forums, the Christian women are far from determined.
There are reasons for girls (& guys) to not want a partner that aren’t just secular. Burned in the past, just easier being single, etc. Christian girls can think that too.
So, I concede the point. Women don't want men, lol. There, now we can all be in agreement
I think it's fair to say the women on here aren't like that.Well, I'm just saying, I keep seeing these, "I'm dedicating my life to God now, and not marriage"
I mean, what are they...a Catholic nun? lol I've even seen some men say this.
Sometimes non involvement is safer. There are some who rest in God and others who don’t engage with the opposite sex due to previous experiences, fear, uncertainty, and the present climate. They see the hurt and disappointment and don’t want the same. They’re protecting themselves.
~bella
On one hand, I can understand on how some people don'twant to....complicate their lives...on the other hand, wouldn't you really think this is a challenge they would need to overcome?
Wouldnt you say there needs to be a goal to accomplish here to step outside their comfort zone?
But...they got to want to.
No, i did not photoshopped them.
My sibblings are brutally honest persons, about everything. They where not trying to bully me or anything.
If you are being honest, then you cant deny that im 1 of 10 on those 2 pictures.
Im living right now in a negative window because for 16 years i failed. So i realised im not good enough to get friends. There is no point
in keep trying to get friends. Im just gonna focus on God from now on.
ugly too by the world’s
Im ugly too by the world’s standards. My own Dad even called me ugly.No, i did not photoshopped them.
My sibblings are brutally honest persons, about everything. They where not trying to bully me or anything.
If you are being honest, then you cant deny that im 1 of 10 on those 2 pictures.
Im living right now in a negative window because for 16 years i failed. So i realised im not good enough to get friends. There is no point
in keep trying to get friends. Im just gonna focus on God from now on.
Everything the LORD makes is Beautiful.I'm ugly too by the world’s standards.