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So, this comes in light of the whole debacle surrounding Josh Harris, author of "I Kissed Dating Goodbye." Coincidentally, also the father-in-law of one of my small town church acquaintances (I would say friend, but tbh we weren't really close, but we know of each other and served in some ministries together. Sister in Christ, I guess we'll say?)
When Harris renounced his faith, so many of my friends posted on Facebook how they were ruined by Harris' aforementioned book, and how it was false. There a couple key things here that I want to point out.
While a false teacher/deceiver, if indeed they are that, may have done a bad thing, the blame is not solely on their shoulders. We also have a responsibility to discern, and one of the biggest problems I see in Christianity is that many Christians read more "Christian literature," than the actual Bible itself. I have yet to see a Christian say, "I was wrong to believe that lie," but rather, the blame is placed squarely on the "false teacher."
One caveat stemming from that, is that a teaching is not false because someone renounces the faith. False is false and true is true. Sometimes someone can have a really strong argument for what they believe to be biblical, but then renounce the faith; that does not make their prior argument unbiblical. It only shows them to not be a trusted source going forward.
So, taking all these things into account, is it possible that there is a popular belief in Christianity right now, that is actually a false teaching? Similarly, is there a true teaching that may have been lost due to the nature of the teacher it originated from?
For me, I firmly stand by this belief, that the whole Boundaries teaching, particularly by Dr. Henry Cloud, is one of the most wicked teachings currently in all of Christianity. I do not mean to say we should never have boundaries. There are clear times when we should...such as abuse. Sometimes not so clear, where it may at least be understandable, such as ex-bf/gf. But for the most part, I have found peoples' use of boundaries to just shut out anyone they dislike, disagree with, annoys them, or basically any reason they see fit, in the name of Christian boundaries. I mean, I see children shut out their parents, directly against then 10 Commandments. I think this has added more division to the church than any other teaching in history. It was actually a secular psychological belief long before Cloud espoused it. I legitimately could see many Christians saying in 20 years, "How stupid I was to believe Henry Cloud and Boundaries! I sabotaged all my friendships and now I have none!"
To me, the biggest red flag of a false teaching is when a great number of non-Christians are in full support of the teaching.
When Harris renounced his faith, so many of my friends posted on Facebook how they were ruined by Harris' aforementioned book, and how it was false. There a couple key things here that I want to point out.
While a false teacher/deceiver, if indeed they are that, may have done a bad thing, the blame is not solely on their shoulders. We also have a responsibility to discern, and one of the biggest problems I see in Christianity is that many Christians read more "Christian literature," than the actual Bible itself. I have yet to see a Christian say, "I was wrong to believe that lie," but rather, the blame is placed squarely on the "false teacher."
One caveat stemming from that, is that a teaching is not false because someone renounces the faith. False is false and true is true. Sometimes someone can have a really strong argument for what they believe to be biblical, but then renounce the faith; that does not make their prior argument unbiblical. It only shows them to not be a trusted source going forward.
So, taking all these things into account, is it possible that there is a popular belief in Christianity right now, that is actually a false teaching? Similarly, is there a true teaching that may have been lost due to the nature of the teacher it originated from?
For me, I firmly stand by this belief, that the whole Boundaries teaching, particularly by Dr. Henry Cloud, is one of the most wicked teachings currently in all of Christianity. I do not mean to say we should never have boundaries. There are clear times when we should...such as abuse. Sometimes not so clear, where it may at least be understandable, such as ex-bf/gf. But for the most part, I have found peoples' use of boundaries to just shut out anyone they dislike, disagree with, annoys them, or basically any reason they see fit, in the name of Christian boundaries. I mean, I see children shut out their parents, directly against then 10 Commandments. I think this has added more division to the church than any other teaching in history. It was actually a secular psychological belief long before Cloud espoused it. I legitimately could see many Christians saying in 20 years, "How stupid I was to believe Henry Cloud and Boundaries! I sabotaged all my friendships and now I have none!"
To me, the biggest red flag of a false teaching is when a great number of non-Christians are in full support of the teaching.