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Is it okay for a Christian to seek revenge?

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Escaping abuse is not the same thing as seeking revenge.
we are unable to stop the person. They are spreading something private all over the internet. The police cant trace it to him and legally charge him, he is very tech savvy.
 
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Sounds like you may need to start some spiritual warfare.

Site rules prevent me from giving you instruction on how to do that, but do an internet search and find someone versed in that to help you.
 
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Sounds like you may need to start some spiritual warfare.

Site rules prevent me from giving you instruction on how to do that, but do an internet search and find someone versed in that to help you.

What is the difference between spiritual warfare and simple prayer in this situation?
 
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What is the difference between spiritual warfare and simple prayer in this situation?
Prayer is the first step in spiritual warfare. But there are many more levels of it.

Unfortunately the forum rules say I cannot explain further.
 
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Revenge? No. There is an old saying that revenge is sweet; and that is why God reserves it to Himself.

Now Justice is not the same as revenge, and that can, and in most cases SHOULD, be pursued. If someone has done a violent crime, they should face the charges on that. Even if it only serves to keep them from harming someone else.

Retributive views of justice are often simply sacralized vengence.
 
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But what happens if there isnt enough proof to legally charge the person even though they are guilty? They just simply get away with it.

They didn't just "get away with it". God knows.

Revenge hurts someone. It isn't about justice. A Christian is required to love his enemies. That is why being a Christian isn't ever the easy way out. Give it to God. God is big enough to handle it. Even if you never know that God handled it.
 
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so in this life he just gets off scot free to keep doing more damage?

Most dictators die in bed.

But in your case, you need to find someone who is expert enough in social media to stop this person.

Revenge is not the goal, stopping him is the goal. There is a difference.
 
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so in this life he just gets off scot free to keep doing more damage?

we are unable to stop the person. They are spreading something private all over the internet. The police cant trace it to him and legally charge him, he is very tech savvy.
What would your revenge entail? Spreading more private dirt on him? I’m sure that you can see how circular the bad behaviour would become. Instead of rising above the problem, the problem has gained a new member threatening to become worse than the original participant. How has God gained in this? He hasn’t! Look at it from God’s perspective and I’m sure you’ll find much to discuss with Him. Trust is the issue. Please realize that God’s plan is that something will grow from all that your going thru and that something will be you. Revenge would be like taking lessons from the devil.
 
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What would your revenge entail? Spreading more private dirt on him? I’m sure that you can see how circular the bad behaviour would become. Instead of rising above the problem, the problem has gained a new member threatening to become worse than the original participant. How has God gained in this? He hasn’t! Look at it from God’s perspective and I’m sure you’ll find much to discuss with Him. Trust is the issue. Please realize that God’s plan is that something will grow from all that your going thru and that something will be you. Revenge would be like taking lessons from the devil.

What do you mean by trust and God's plan? I dont see how his plan is working out for the good of everyone involved. Seems like he is absent from the situation.
 
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What do you mean by trust and God's plan? I dont see how his plan is working out for the good of everyone involved. Seems like he is absent from the situation.
Psalms says that when a man’s way are pleasing to the Lord that He will cause even his enemies to be at peace with him.
 
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What do you mean by trust and God's plan? I dont see how his plan is working out for the good of everyone involved. Seems like he is absent from the situation.

There are lots of things that we don't see, or understand in this life.
Have you asked God what he is doing, and what he wants you to do?
 
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That doesn’t mean that you can’t expose the lies, just don’t take up the wrong example in doing so and others will see the folly in what he’s doing.

1 Peter 3:16
keep a good conscience so that in the thing in which you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ will be put to shame.

because

Mathew 12:36
" I tell you that every careless word that people speak, they shall give an accounting for it in the day of judgment.
 
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