Well, if I hadn't stood up for myself, I would have been a bullied "doormat", no you don't have to stand tall, just stand up. No, don't start any trouble or be anywhere, if possible, where trouble follows you, but then again if it happens, prepare for it. On a side note, I don't know why anyone that intentionally does not intend to follow through if a last resort would have firearms to start with. In a scenario with firearm trying to stop rape or attack or robbery or whatever: 1) Pointing firearm at attacker, he may simply give up or run off 2) He may call your bluff. If he calls your bluff, you better be damn ready to kill, if necessay. If you don't, he will disarm you, not only you will be dead, you have lunatic with a firearm he can use on someone else, thence theoretically could use on another non-Christian who's soul isn't saved (or more). Wanting peace and non-violence is admirable and what everyone should strive for, but not always possible. I have had to defend myself more than once, and also my family before, and I un-abashedly don't feel any guilt about it. That's between me and God, and no I haven't every YET had to kill anyone. With extreme overboard "pacifism" I've seen written about, their are probably some on this forum that would, say, an extreme case, their daughter was raped in the behind, but she were to fight off and hurt or kill the sodomite, they would spank or whip the same said behind for having the audacity to fight off the dirtbag, because she did not turn the other cheek and did not submit to father's authority, i.e. violence meets violence.