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Sascha Fitzpatrick
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I agree with Bliz,
And what you other girls said is right too - save as much as you can for your wedding night, without it getting TOO ridiculous (ie, ridiculous in that noone would be able to tell by your actions that you were engaged in the first place!)...
I was just saying, that YES it is possible to have slept in the same bed and not have had sex, and I personally don't find anything DIRECTLY wrong with it - but it's not something I'd suggest for everyone to do. I just know from personal and friend experience, that it IS possible to sleep in the same bed as someone and NEVER have sex with them (or struggle horrendously with sexual thoughts)...
Sasch
And what you other girls said is right too - save as much as you can for your wedding night, without it getting TOO ridiculous (ie, ridiculous in that noone would be able to tell by your actions that you were engaged in the first place!)...
I was just saying, that YES it is possible to have slept in the same bed and not have had sex, and I personally don't find anything DIRECTLY wrong with it - but it's not something I'd suggest for everyone to do. I just know from personal and friend experience, that it IS possible to sleep in the same bed as someone and NEVER have sex with them (or struggle horrendously with sexual thoughts)...
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KristianJ
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I can imagine that for a lot of people, the sexual thoughts and temptations could be almost too tough to quell. I've heard about unmarried couples who do that and have no problems conducting themselves appropriately, but if you are thinking about it make sure your thoughts and intentions are as pure as they can possibly be. If you have any doubts that you could do that and not being inappropriately intimate with your partner, then wait for your wedding night, because untamed desires can easily do damage to your relationship.
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